I've been married a little over a year. I'm 19 years old and have been having sex for about 3 years with one and only guy--my husband. I have not had an orgasim and not the pleasure i think should get out of sex. I had my son almost 11 months ago, but never experienced much before that. It really bothers my husband, but its not his fault-he has tried and tried and my body is just not at the right place i guess.
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2006-07-28 11:48:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i would go down to a sex store and look around and see if you like to try some thing that may bring you to your climax point there is a lot of toys out there just made for that reason
2006-07-28 11:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answers so far, you need to find out what makes you happy and makes you climax, because otherwise your husband will never know. Set aside a weekend or just a night where the two of you "Discover" each other's bodies. Try this after you've had an orgasm with a vibrator. This way you'll both be able to find and experiment with new ways to keep each other happy. Because you're absolutely right, sex without some kind of climax isn't as rewarding. Good luck!! :)
2006-07-28 18:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by holleygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I been there before I had a girl that just wouldnt be at the level I was and it boghered me I thought I was just loosing it so I had to go and see if did but It wasnt me it was her thats the way her body was but you should go to the doctor but then again your so young and you really need to experience a climax!!
2006-07-28 18:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a really hard time "getting there" myself...and like you, it has nothing to do with my husband...it's all me...lots of women have that problem...there are a lot of things you could try...it could be physical, emotional, or mental...it different for everybody. Send me an e-mail if you would like, and I will try to explain more...
I tried to respond to your e-mail, but it said that your address could not be confirmed...not sure why, but if you get it worked out send me another message, and I will get back to you as soon as I can.
2006-07-28 18:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him go downtown on you and using his tongue, slowly trace each letter of the alphabet - (I do this all the time and have been very successful!)
You can also go to the book store and get a copy of Kuma Sutra and then work your way through that with your husband!!
Good Luck!
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2006-07-28 18:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the experts say if YOU explore YOUR OWN body then you know what will make you have an orgasm. then you can show your husband.
try: in the search bar: How to masturbate. It will help you. and then once you have figured what helps you reach your climax then show your husband.
2006-07-28 18:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you a good vibrator/ massager and spend time yourself exploring. When you discover what turns your body on he will be able to help take it 2 the next level
2006-07-28 18:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because you are still young and haven't found your erotic zones yet. Get an educational intercourse video or try going to the link below.
2006-07-28 19:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Goofy-footer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you reach your climax by masturbating? If yes then there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-07-28 18:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by njal47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a feeling hes note doing it right, like hitting your g,spot,
2006-07-28 19:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋