Okay so I broke with my girl we were together for about 9 months this girl has a 1 month old baby from somebody else and has cheated on me with the babys daddy and she always makes it seem like I am at fault for everything I couldnt take it so I broke up with her so now she is calling me at work and telling me that if I leave her she is going to come to my job and just go all crazy I am not scared about her actions but I dont want to loose my job well I dont know what to do!
2006-07-28 11:44:43 · 13 answers · asked by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Babe that is called harassment. She can be fined or even put in jail if she pulls that ****. She is very immature for even threatining this. You could also get a restraining order if you have proof she is harassing you. Also I dont know how close you are to your boss but I would just request a meeting and during that meeting explain the situation. Do not give them too many details but just let them know this might happen. they cant get mad at you for another persons mistake. luck to you, Kristen
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2006-07-28 11:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by leaves_of_autumn171311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If youve gone thru the break up thing and its truly over, then notify the police of the harassing phone calls, they will notify her to stop such actions and/or you can file stalking charges agianst her and what will be will be. Also,talk to your boss about the problem and tell him you are doing all you possibly can to keep her away from work, and keep him notified of any incident because you may need him to keep your job and just in case something happens at work, youll need witnesses. Good luck
2006-07-28 18:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things, u can either get a restraining order on her, or, u can talk to ur boss about the problem, and see if they may issue her a no trespassing order on her so that she cant show up to your job and cause issues..
2006-07-28 18:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn... you needa tell that girl to slow her roll she crazed lol I would definatly talk to my boss and let him know whats up ..if its that bad he will call the cops for you.. tell her he will call the cops if she is seen around there ..she wanted that other fool tell her to go get him ! sorry bout your luck man . Theres not really nuttin u can do unless she weirds out on your a$$ untill then just blow her off ..just be real with her let her know its over ..if she still buggin have one of your homegirls scare her or summin LOL
2006-07-28 19:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by tainted.luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file a restraining order against her that way if she does come there you can have her arrested. also try not to answer the phone and let her leave you a message so that you can have proof of the things she is saying to you.
2006-07-28 18:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let your boss know straight up what she is doing to you that way you dont get into trouble and your boss cant take care of it.. and as for you outside of work I would tell her look lady get the hell out of my life .. we are done and I dont like you hurrassing me.. and you keep doing it im going to report you!
2006-07-28 18:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes the one at fault...you didnt cheat shes the one that couldnt keep her pants on...and say if she comes to your work you will have the security remove her
2006-07-28 18:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she enjoys threatening you. Let her come to your work. And if she does, call security and they will escort her out and that will be the end of such nonsense.
2006-07-28 19:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining orders are nice too
2006-07-28 18:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply make peaceful conversation and tell her all what you have and try to find solution with her not anybody else
2006-07-28 18:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by massimi2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋