I recently found out that my wife has kissed a freind of hers at work a few times, I don't know how to take it. I know she is attracted to women and that is kind of sexy but what is okay when it comes to fulfilling those fantasies? I confroned her about it and she says it is no big deal but the only reason I found out was by reading some emails that she talks with her frinds about. Advice?
2006-07-28 11:34:25 · 13 answers · asked by bsiek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cheating is cheating. my ex also liked female companionship sometimes but she felt free to tell me when she wanted to see her female friend and agreed to set certain limits. we divorced after several years but not because of this.
2006-07-28 11:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's cheating on you...it's an affair or she's contemplating one. Don't get too turned on by the fact that's it's with a woman. It's still cheating.
Did you know she was bi when you married her? If I were you, I would NOT look the other way. It's not okay for her to be doing what she's doing. Either she's with you 100% or she's not. Don't settle and don't let her manipulate you into settling. No one deserves to be with someone who doesn't love them.
If it feels wrong to you, it IS wrong. You deserve better.
2006-07-28 11:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opnion thats sick I dont care what it is the same sex or the opposite sex its still cheating in my eyes. Marraige is more then about a piece of paper and ring... its about keeping the LORD in your marriage, and be comminted to eachother and give eachother your heart and sole. Marraige .. you know 1 man 1 women!! A lot of people dont understand that. In my eyes man or women its still cheating and its sick!
2006-07-28 11:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be experimenting, bi-interested, or a bi-sexual woman. To kiss a woman a few time would mean to me, that the person likes it. I would think it would not be a big deal if she was bi-sexual.
2006-07-28 11:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all woman kissw women ,so whats the big deal ,get your own back and kiss a guy that should fix her up.
2006-07-28 11:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of feelings do u have because of this discovery!are u afraid of ur place w/her and does this worry u she will run off with another women? I say sit her down and talk this over!
2006-07-28 12:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if this was a man she was kissing? Different sex but same result. She's cheating.
2006-07-28 11:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might have been harmless experimentation with a friend. I would try to find out if it's gone any farther than than, or if she wants it to.
2006-07-29 08:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say this is what ever guy wants. but if she is doing this behind ur back, same sex or not she's cheating on u
2006-07-28 11:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make sure she's bi, not lesbian. let her make you a part of it. go and have a threesome. you will both love it. most guys would kill to be in this position.
2006-07-28 11:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by nyyankeesg1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋