What do you think about affairs? And should you carry it on if you feel a connection to your "lover" ????

Question

Do I continue with my affair when I know it's wrong but it feels so right ?

Answer 1

Being with someone else rather than your husband will not help the situation. And in the long run could damage your relationship with your children if you have any. They may blame you if something does happen between you and their Dad/mother. Remember it is not just you in this picture, you may have children that will be effected.

MY question to you would be why not connect more with ur spouse? Do you have to always lie to be with ur LOVER? If so, you know it was wrong when you do it.

Answer 2

No way. Affairs are selfish and destroy families. Instead of finding a connection to another person, why not put that energy into the person you are already married to?

Grow up and take some resposibility for your actions. This is going to blow up in your face so much more than you know. Your life is never going to be the same.

Sorry, but it's the truth.

Answer 3

Get out now, an affair is not a relationship it is just a fantasy.

Answer 4

Only immature people that lack in morals and values have affairs on their spouse or with those that are married.. nothing but home wreckers both of them.. and i have zero respect for those that take vows and treat them so lightly..

Answer 5

i had an affair with a married woman. it lasted about a year. all it really does is cause drama and pain for both sides.

Answer 6

You might as well keep your lover because if your husband/wife has any sense he/she'll divorce your butt and take everything you have.

Answer 7

You are commiting a sin.