Also how can you tell if they are doing it again?
2006-07-28 11:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe separation is best take time from each other. If married with kids I would try to work things out. If he only changes for a short time he is cheating again. If you don't fix the underlying reason then it wi continue. Talking to you someone mutual would be best some sort of mediation. Good Luck wish you the best
2006-07-28 11:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by LJ 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I have forgiven but never forgotten that an ex cheated. As far as doing it again - you know the signs if they are there then guess what they are at it again. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-07-28 18:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive most times. I feel uncomfortable but I forgive. And I cheat too.
There is a problem in your question itself.
Is he a cheater??? Or is he a person who looks for relaxing sex? Maybe it is even good for your Relationship that he have sex outside your partnership? All the womens with their love for controlling the partner have problems. The most partners don't like it. And that he have sometimes sex ... why not? It is just boring to have for the rest of the life with the same person sex.
I can tell you that most men who cheat on their wifes love the wife even more after the "outlaw" sex. They like to f**k, but the partnership is still more. And after a while of f*cking outside they get lust again to have sex with their partner. because then comes the reverse thing, they like to have sex at home again.
2006-07-28 18:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by torosorogoro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have forgiven someone for cheating before, and trust me, it was a mistake. once a guy cheats it just gets worse. Once a cheater always a cheater, thats what i always say, its because they have no self control.
2006-07-28 18:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!! I really believe once a cheater always a cheater, once the trust is gone what is left?? Look for the same things that where happening before. Just because they get busted once doesn't make them any smarter about it... Good Luck...
2006-07-28 18:23:00 · answer #5 · answered by angela r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had forgave one time too many...and It's was a major mistake, because my (future) ex -wife ended up cheating again.
Wasted Time & Energy.....you can tell when their behavior patterns drastically changes and they are distant with you emotionally and intimately....also when they become secretive about certain things or defensice when you ask them upfront " What The ^&*^ is Going On?"
2006-07-28 20:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and it was one of the worst choices I ever made in my life. I should have cut them loose right then and there.
Forgiving someone doesn't mean you have to take them back. You can forgive someone and wish them well for their future WITHOUT you.
To be honest, if you can't trust someone, you really don't need to be with them.
2006-07-28 18:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have and I could always tell whenever he did it
Like, he wouldn't answer his cell in front of me or he would sit in his car on it ....
always meeting up with some friend that I never met....
couldn't go to the gym with me.. alot of BS..
2006-07-28 18:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by midnite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! good luck with that one, you just have to trust ur instincts
2006-07-28 18:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been able to regain the trust that was lost. Was never able to believe them again. If you can, GREAT..........If not, MOVE ON
2006-07-28 18:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Suzi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋