haha i am 14 and haven't had one yet.. well not a *real* one anyway.. haha maybe my longest was two weeks.. eeeekkk. well i am always jealous of my friends or anyone i see with a boyfriend..it makes me sadd.. haha not really but anyways.. yeah i was just wondering what some other people feel like.. so just answer the question please.
2006-07-28 11:15:30 · 35 answers · asked by katey 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
It's okay to have a boyfriend at 14, the issue is what activities are okay with a boyfriend at 14 (or 16, or 18).
When it is right for you, it will happen. People who try and force it because they think they "should" have a bf, aren't really ready. Boys and girls who spend more time talking to others about a bf or gf are missing the point.
Seriously, this is a time to learn from others mistakes--the melodrama, the less-than-ladylike behavior, etc. Watch, learn, and take care of yourself and your reputation. The rest will take care of itself--in time.
2006-07-28 11:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15
2006-07-28 11:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by lovepacprincess360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think it depends on the kind of person you are. I'm 14, like you, and I've had 3 serious boyfriends.
the first one, we went out for about 2 months before we broke up.
the second one, well we've been going out on and off for the past 2 years.
and the third one is my current bf. we've been going out for almost 3 weeks now.
You shouldn't be looking for a boyfriend. I love my friends, school, and sports alot so that they take up alot of my life. He's still very important to me, but he's not the ONLY thing in my life. I didn't go out looking for him, we just sort of met, and everything just clicked.
There isn't really a "right" age for a boyfriend, its just when you least expect it, someone amazing will come into your life.
2006-07-28 16:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by horsegal92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the mother of a 16 year old who also hasn't had a real boyfriend yet (lots of flirting, phone calls, ocassional movie dates), I say it all depends on maturity. At your age I think dating doesn't really exist, you are at the age when boys should just be friends. Flirting is fun, practice for when you are older 17 or 18 and ready for a real boyfriend. Getting together with a bunch of friends is so much more fun and less stressful at your age.
2006-07-28 11:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by hillcountry_rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 was my parents rule. I met my boyfriend when I was 16 and we've been dating a year and a half. We can actually date without our parents having us to drive us everywhere. We're mature enough to not make dumb decisions.
I felt ready at 16, but it doesn't mean that all girls are. Some of my friends dated earlier and some still are not dating. It's all about when you are ready. Don't be jealous of your friends. You have quite a few years before you have to worry about finding a real boyfriend.
Have fun. Go out with your friends. Try double dates and big get togethers with your friends (both male and female).
2006-07-28 13:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lyssums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... That really varies... Young women mature differently at different ages and it all really depends on if you are ready or not. I am 20 and I had my first real boyfriend was when I was 16 and quite honestly I came to terms that I, infact, was not ready for a boyfriend at 16. So I'd say what my mother says... You can start "dating" at 15 but when it comes to serious relationships/boyfriends, you have to feel that it is right because it is so easy to fall in love, but so hard to fall out of it. Good Luck hun!
2006-07-28 11:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by ♥reeses*pieces♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel its better to be maybe 16 for some experience. Guys are players some are good. Let yourself grow and dont get into the sex just yet. I made a mistake when I did at 16 with a loser. Its better to wait a little longer than 16 years to have it. Dont just fall for the first guy that makes you turned on or gives you a drink. Good luck** your friends or whoever aren't as special as you think atleast you can make yourself not as available and be able to say you can count on your fingers how many guys you've been with.
2006-07-28 11:24:52 · answer #7 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's ok if you don't have a boyfriend yet, I don't. I feel the same way as you though. I don't know if there's a right age, but I know of girls that have boyfriends even in 5th grade, but that doesn't mean you have to have one. It's whenever you want one. But wait until you find the right guy, otherwise, what's the point? When it's the right time, you'll know.
2006-07-30 03:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by musicalblonde7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any age is fine,... as long as you're in charge and don't let some boy trick you into doing anything that is not right for you and your well being.
Boys are lowlife sleazy selfish dogs, but once in a while you will find a really nice boy that will grow up to be the perfect gentleman.
Be careful, its nice for the image, but remember responsibility for your actions, Or lack of actions can never be avoided. Thats just life.
Be well & take care
mahalo
2006-07-28 11:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way when I was your age, but wait just 2 years at 16 it all starts to happen for you.
Now I have a boy friend.
2006-07-28 11:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋