My girlfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me. The hardest thing for me to deal with now is to think that she broke up with me because she wants to be with other guys. It would mean a lot to me if she would at least wait 6 months at least you know give it some time. But im going crazy thinking that she might be boinking some other guy real soon and on top of that i seen her the other day and i seen her all dressed up with colored contacts on. Please give me some advise or your honest opinions, im going insane.
2006-07-28 11:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Breaking up is hard. Maybe she is dressing up to make herself feel better. Or maybe she is seeing other guys. And, since she's not dating you, it's none of your business whom she is dating or having sex with. It's her life, you don't own her. Live your own life. Find a hobby, a friend, a good television show--anything to take your mind off her. I find after a breakup, I like to run/walk...it takes my mind off and does my body good. So then I look even better when I find the next guy. Good luck.
2006-07-28 11:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Amber E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember this Rule: "You never marry the 1st girl you were in love with". You are hurt because you were dumped!! Get to the Gym, find other activities to distract you from her and TIME WILL HEAL!!
Another rule in relationship: In a relationship there are 3 rings: 1) Engagement Ring; 2) Wedding Ring; 3) SUFFER RING
Your suffering now is nothing compared to if you gave a girl the first 2 rings as you will receive the 3rd ring!!! Don't go INSANE, go OUTSANE and you will meet a new person!!
2006-07-28 18:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when people break up, the normal thing to do is hope that the other is miserable, with out you, but, that doesn't happen all the time. some start over, look different , dress, hair, make-up. it's a transitional stage when we get back into the world. the one thing we always think about is them having someone else, that's the worst part. some people stay in bad relationships because they don't want to face this exact issue. One way to start getting over this is by realizing you to now have the freedom to see whom ever you like...i know it isn't easy, but we all get over it
2006-07-28 19:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is hard, especially when it's not a mutual decision. Remember, it takes two people to make a relationship but only one to break it off. And that leaves at least one partner hurt, angry, and depressed. It will take time for you to recover emotionally from this but you will recover and life will go on. It is pointless to want to control what she does now or whom she may be with. And think about this: would you really want to be with a woman who wants to be with other men? Please let her go gracefully; make it a point to NOT see her or hear from others what's going on in her life. And then, when you've given yourself time to regroup, you'll be able to find someone else with whom you can share your life. Good luck and God bless you.
2006-07-28 18:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This too shall pass; give find something (or someone) else to take your mind off her-this is all part of life...be glad she was up front with you- she showed honesty...you WILL get over her.
2006-07-28 18:06:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let go im sure there are others much more better than her and like that you will get over her
2006-07-28 18:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋