Have you ever fantasized about being with someone else when making love?

Question

And if so, what would your significant other say if he / she knew? Also, who did you dream of being with?

Answer 1

ya I did when i was married and not happy. But with my new man all i think of is him and i am ready to go!!! I would think of doing my neighbor when i was married, if he knew, he would have killed me...

Answer 2

Oh, Yesssss!

There comes a time in most relationships when the magic of sex disappears. You still love her and she still loves you but it's all so . . . routine. It's a perfectly normal reaction. The question is, how do you bring a little of that magic back. Fantasy and role-playing might be quite helpful.

If you're both receptive, by using role-playing you have a million ways to spice up your sex lives. Just " pretend " you're other people and " pretend " you're in a situation that you find erotic. Perhaps you're trying to pick her up at a bar or maybe she wants you to be the TV repairmen. The possibilities are endless.

If one of you is not open to role-playing, fantasy is the next best thing. It's exactly the same as role playing but it's only happening in your mind.

If you're both open and honest about what you want for not at our have got to turn the ringer on the phone all OK and it's good at it calculated and sexual stimulation, there's no reason why both of you shouldn't achieve sexual satisfaction.

Good luck !

Answer 3

Oh Yeah ! It's very normal to fantasize about being with someone else. I have done it on more then one occasion. I would not tell my partner because why cause the conflict or suspicion. I often think of a friend of mine that is a lot like my husband ! It's a weird situation. Let it go or have fun with it, that's my opinion !!!

Answer 4

All the time!!! I think about other women and mainly my ex husband (sex was never the issue) Ha Ha! My husband is good in bed but I need to fulfill my fantasies and the only way to do that without cheating is to fantasize right??
I would never tell him...that is just wrong!
I am sure he fantasizes about other people.....I sure in hell do not want to know!!!! Keep it to yourself. Somethings are better left unsaid....get my point??

Answer 5

All the time.
Who cares?
The girl was the freakiest exhibitionist I've ever met. Some of the most erotic sex I've ever had. She was the "on the hood of the car on Route 66 in broad daylight"/"In the elevator at the Monte Carlo Hotel"/ "In the hallway on the way to the room at the MGM Hotel" Girl.

Answer 6

Fantasizing is normal. In a long term relationship everyone does it at some point. There is nothing wrong with it.

Answer 7

Absolutely, it spices things up when things become a little routine. Whats even better is if you have an open enough relationship with your partner that not only can you tell them, but you can have a little roleplay. My ex used to pretend he was my trainer at the gym, I've never *** so hard in my life.

Answer 8

While i was ******* I was fantasizing about my ex and one time i called out his name right in the middle of making love

Answer 9

I do it all the time. I wouldn't even think of telling my boyfriend that I do it. I sometimes fantasize about being with another woman.

Answer 10

No I haven't. I see now though that a person like me is extremely rare to find nowadays. If the person you're with doesn't do it for you, find someone else instead of just thinking about someone else.

Answer 11

Fantasizing helps keep spice in long term relationships. I don't really care what my man would think...