how do you love your wife/husband/gf/boyfreind?

Question

can you tell me how much you love your better half? why do you love them (what makes you love them)

if they did something to wrong you and/or hurt you more then once how would you react?

have you been wronged by your better half? what happened can you share with me ?

can someone give me a tissue :(

Answer 1

I love him enough to sacrifice just about everything, except my health and living in a cold climate. I find him attractive, where I find no other guys interesting at all. I hurt when he’s hurt, and I do whatever I can think of to put a smile on his face, whether he’s had a hard day or not. I love him enough to listen to him talk about all of the little silly things he likes to discuss, video game stats, hockey teams, etc., and make his hobbies important to me as well. I love him enough to try any thing he enjoys, fly fishing, sushi, computer games, etc. I love him enough to politely disagree with him when I think he’s making a decision that will eventually hurt him, such as at work with his boss, etc. I love him enough that I make sure to spend at least 30 seconds before I walk out the door in the morning in a hug, and that the first thing I do when I get home is the same. I love him enough to check with him before I leave work to see if I need to pick anything up, food, money, etc. I love him enough to sing his praises to other people, and stick up for him if my family or others try to put him down. I love him enough to feel bad when I do something, and genuinely apologize and try to fix it. I love him so that if I feel that I have been hurt or that he’s done something wrong, I’ll bring it to his attention, and have confidence in him that he’ll fix it. I love him enough that I’ve gone to work and supported us for the majority of our relationship, and when he has work, to get up with him at 4 a.m. in the morning to pack him breakfast and lunch so he’s well energized for his long day, and to make up the bed and turn down the covers so he can jump in and get some rest when he comes home. In short, I love this guy to death. We have a secret code that he learned my parents used to do, and many times throughout the day we use it on eachother ,and it never gets old. He’ll take my hand or arm and squeeze it three times which means “I love you.” Which is a nice gesture to do, if you’re in public or someone’s too emotional to talk or say any words. It says a lot. We also will do this thing while we’re sitting next to eachother (like during a lecture) and drop our heads so they touch together. It’s a little thing, but every time he does it I feel so loved and valuable.

I love him because I find him very unique. He has a perfectly honed, unbelievably creative sense of humor and I never get tired of laughing at his jokes. I love him because he’s good looking in some ways, has wonderful green eyes, and a wonderful soothing voice. I love him because his soft spot is animals, and nature, and he’s very intelligent when it comes to space, science and history. He’s a reader and he has a never ending appetite for information. I love that he talks to me about everything, from something he heard on the news, to his favorite books or episode of Mythbusters. He’s a spiritual person, and is working every day on improving that aspect of his personality, which makes him an even better husband and person. He agreed to leave his family and move across the country so that my health could improve, at great loss to himself, and thankfully our relationship though it was strained, has gotten even better than before despite 3 or 4 hurricanes. I love him because I can tell that he feels disappointed in himself when he disappoints me, and I see him put forth effort to make things right or to change things in the future. As you can see, much to love in this person.

Of course I’ve been hurt, I think everyone has. He hurt me by putting himself in the position where it was his word against “hers” and no way to prove that her accusations of him cheating weren’t true. I allowed myself to be upset, and in small cases or large cases when he hurts me, I tell him how it’s made me feel, what I expect him to do, what he could have done differently, I watch his reactions to determine if he’s genuinely sorry. After months of hard speech and ensuing depression, I left on a vacation with my family, and the result was that he came around very quickly and joined me there a week later. I don’t give him the cold shoulder, I just don’t reward him or pardon him without some sign of him being sorry, and putting into action things to fix it.

I am sorry you’ve been wronged. I would use whatever you have left in you to communicate to see what can be done about the situation. :/ Best wishes for your tomorrow.

Answer 2

With my ex husband, he lied, cheated almost the whole 20 years, abused me, his kids, and drugs, used me, etc. I thought I loved him, but I got fed up with his crap and abusiveness and left and divorced him.

I have since found a totally awesome guy and we are engaged and living together! How do I show him I love him? I keep the house work done, I give him constant hugs and kisses when he's home from work, I tell him I love him constatnly when he is home and when we are on the phone, I do things for him, I am there for him when he has a problem, we go places together and do things together, etc.

I love my faince because he loves, respects, and cherishes me with his heart and soul, like I do him. He doesn't believe in abusing or cheating, just like me. He tells me every day that he loves me--and means it and shows it by the love and respect he gives to me. He treats me like a goddess; I treat him like a God. We have each other on pedestals. We love each other enough to die for each other, if need be.

I am not sure how i would react if my fiance hurt me more than once. I know that with my ex, I stayed way too long, even after finding out how much/how often he hurt me. I have learned a lot from that horrible relationship, so I may not stay if my fiance did the same things my ex did (but I doubt he will).

Answer 3

With all my heart, 20 years and counting... Everyone has their ups and downs but you need to get through them. I enjoy each day we have together. If it's a bad one I try to make the next one a better day. Also be open. If something they do bothers you, tell them. How are they going to know if you don't.

Answer 4

my boyfriend was talking to and meeting woman i forgave him because i feel in my heart that everyone deserve a second chance
and not only that i love him to death and i am not giving up on him over these no good woman out here that only want him for his money or what ever. if you did something wrong the best thing to do
is be honest with her,if she love you she will forgive you.

Answer 5

i like my ex such a lot that when her i nonetheless did not love any person else and that i do not even believe like there's a threat of loving any one million else we brokup earlier than three years i like her such a lot when you consider that we had been prefect in combination will its a protracted tale however its simply that many men and women did not wish us in combination and the item is that im the one million who brokup together with her a few occasions i desire that she is the one million who brokup however its me i brok up im nonetheless attempting two get her again however i do not suppose i've threat

Answer 6

I had to resort to divorce