my 16 year old daughter wants breast implants for graduation, DD size.?

Question

She wants to appear more confident and also plans to strip in the clubs. She is very attractive and admits to being very sexual already. She said we cant stop her, so she wants to be all she can be. She said she may not be able to wait for her 18th bday because the pressure is on to get out there all the way. Do we say yes or no ?

Answer 1

Well you should say no, but since she isn't listening to you then you should tell her she isn't an adult and you are her authority. You should not allow her to do this to herself. Tell her to try to go into modeling if she is attractive, but don't let her become a stripper. Come on be good parents and let you daughter have a successful career at something that respects herself.

This is coming from a fifteen year old.

Answer 2

Perhaps you should serve as a responsible parent and say NO. She is 16, and it is not her decision. She's still a minor. Let her do whatever she wants when she's 18, but right now you should set limits.

God bless!

By the way, I'm 1 1/2 years younger than your daughter. Yes, the pressure is on, but it's also easy to say no to the pressure. I expect my parents to give me limits, even when it makes me unhappy, because in the long run it's whats best for me.

PS: If you are really the 16 year old daughter, you need desperate help, . You're only 16, and this is NOT funny. Even a fellow teen can see how ridiculous this is. Why would you tell your parents you were active in the first place??

Seriously...GOD BLESS!!!

Answer 3

I guess it would be your choice, you are the parent. However, I think I should tell you that I was a 42 DDD/F at 16, I had a reduction, and I'm now 28 with DD's. I hate them, my back aches all the time. Bra's are expensive and the extra support needed puts quit a strain on my neck ans shoulders. Talk to her about the pro's and con's first.... most Dr.'s offer some type of counseling before, ro you could take the initiative and have her see a counselor before. But at 16 the body is still growing, and in my opinion the risk is much greater and not worth it. See if she can wait another year or so.

Answer 4

I hope your question is a joke. Because if you are really considering getting your 16 year old daughter implants, maybe you should consider group therapy for the entire family. Firstly, she's entirely too young. Not only because she's obviously not mature enough or emotionally ready to make a decision like that, and also because her body isn't done developing. You're putting her health at risk with implants. Every 16 year old feels pressure to look ideal, but by caving in you're teaching her its okay to purchase self esteem instead of doing some soul searching. So pretty much, if you say yes, you are selling your daughter short. Don't give her the quick fix.

Answer 5

Spend the money on counseling for her instead. At 16 she only THINKS she knows what she wants, how well did you make decisions at 16?

If she has succumbed to this much sub-culture already think of what will happen if she gets them. She will HATE DD's and Will get back problems and by the way, your daughter will be dead of AIDS or bad relationships with creeps in the industry by the time she's 30, way to go.
PS: If she survives, she may only do porn for the rest of her stupid life. Parents with these traits are responsible for the downfall of American youth. Did she want a pony at 2?

I did read your other questions and you are a moron. I only leave this for other stupid teenagers to see. STOP WAISTING EVERYONE'S TIME AND GROW UP. You are being reported.

Answer 6

Say No, she is your daughter and should abide by your wishes until she is on her own. She is still a child and should be treated like one (no matter what she thinks or says). Stripping at 16 is immoral and most likely illegal. Take some responsibility for your daughter and show her she is worth more that a piece of flesh that, for a one dollar bill, will expose herself to a group of horny men who are probably at least twice her age.
If you don't care that she is a sl_ut and doesn't have the confidence to be herself, maybe you should buy her the implants and sell her on the streets like the whore you are letting her become.

Answer 7

Well, first I don't recommend DD for anyone. I have them naturally. Any good doctor would try to talk someone out of going so huge so fast.

But being someone who is a retired 'Visual Stimulation Therapist' (wink) I can assure you that I didn't meet one girl that started dancing at such a young age that didn't get all sorts of screwy in the head. If you try to stop her she will do it anyway and not talk to you probably. So you have a choice of accepting it or not. I was 25 when I started and saw such beautiful young ladies lives get all messed up through sex and drugs, mostly drugs. But at 18 she can do almost anything she wants. Do you feel confident in the way you brought her up? Do you feel that you gave her the ingredients to make the right decisions as an adult? This is a tough one. If she wants to, or you want to, discuss this with someone who has been there and done that, please feel free. That life looks so glamorous from the outside but you have to think....Why do so many drink and drug while doing it if its so glamorous?? I was one of the lucky ones with a good head on my shoulders....I did it to feed my child and keep a roof over our heads.

Answer 8

Please tell me you're kidding.

She needs counseling. Changing her inner self will give her more confidence and that would probably give her a better goal for herself than to have sex and strip for others and use her body the way she's planning to. She needs to know that she has far more to offer than that.

As for being able to stop her? The cost will stop her if you don't pay for it and no doctor in his right mind will put DD implants into the body of an 18 year old girl. Have her speak with a qualified cosmetic surgeon who does breast implant procedures so she can stop fantasizing and obsessing about this and have a more realistic view of the possibility for this to even happen.

Answer 9

Did it ever occur to you that this is a test and you're about to fail? NO, don't give her implants! What if she has some legitimate problem and you don't have the money to help her because she used it to expand her chest? Ugh, say no! Maybe you can't stop her once she's 18, but at least you can say no to buying her implants and know that you tried to keep her from degrading herself and focusing on her looks. If she's that good at stripping, she can strip for a while and pay for them herself, anyway--this is not a surgery that you should be paying for. But if you don't give in to her, maybe she'll ditch the stripping idea and focus on something more meaningful. Be a parent! Say no!

Answer 10

Are you out of your mind? I'm 17 years old and I would never want my mother to even second guess a question like this! It doesn't matter if that's what she wants to do, you should tell her NO.

This is not a career option for a child to make, she's still immature in her thought process and you as her provider and MOTHER are supposed to step up and tell her what she can and can't do.

And if she really means what she says that "You can't stop her" then you need to get her some help.

If she doesn't end up going to college to get an education then basically any future she may have is ruined - especially if she wants to work at strip clubs.

And I really think as a mother you should step up and do what's right for your daugther - and that's telling her no.

Answer 11

She should be glad she's not my daughter. She has much larger issues and I would highly reccommend counseling. She want to "appear" more confident? How about having some REAL self-esteem and confidence? In my personal opinion, any doctor who would perform such a surgery on a person that young needs their license taken away. THIS is what society and our expectations have created. Any woman who has respect for herself would never consider stripping or breast implants. You're crazy if you allow you daughter to pressure you into saying YES to this. YOU are the parent.