Due to wonderful facebook photos, I now know people I thought were my friends have been hanging out all summer and doing stuff, yet I have never once been invited. I am angry and hurt. I constantly try to get together with these people. I leave facebook and MySapce messages, voicemails, text messages, IMs saying I'd love to hang out. Should I forget they exist, thus forgetting lots of fond memories from high school? Or should I keep trying to contact them to hang out? I'm also upset because they've been hanging out with my ex boyfriend, who became friends with them because of me. It's like after he and I broke up they chose him over me. I really don't know what to do concerning all this. All I know is I am really and truly hurt.
2006-07-28 10:34:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is the bad side of facebook. You learn things about other people that you probably shouldn't know. A lot of my friends have gotten upset because of things they saw on facebook. It sucks that your friends seemed to have abandoned you. If they are not replying to you after multiple attempts to contact them, I think they must be avoiding you. If they still want to be friends, they should at least make some sort of effort too. My advice would be to make some new friends and post all kinds of pictures of you having fun too.
2006-07-30 16:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by smm_8514 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd shine them on for a while.....don't call or write. Give them the cold shoulder. If they come asking what's up, tell them you've been busy with new friends from out of town or somewhere, you can make it up if you have to. And then if they don't call or write then you really know that they are not true friends, kind of like you know already!
Hey, it they don't wanna be your friend, their loss. You can make new ones, we all do. It hurts, but hey a nice person with a smile on their face can always make friends, so go out and do it. Someday they will hear about you and say, WOW she really made something of her life, we used to be friends. And funny thing is, you probably won't even remember them.
Stay strong, it gets better as you get older:)
And remember, keep on smiling, that will make them wonder what is going on and they will probably be trying to figure it out;-)
Just tell them, sorry, I'm kinda busy...bye.
2006-07-28 17:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering the fact that we live in a world fool of haters, i
strongly suggest that you move on and find people who really appreciate and value your friendship........and an FYI, your a female hun and in this world and the next women will always be competitive....so forget about them and him...
2006-07-28 17:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by smartass07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get another friends because at first they were best friends because u were hanging out with him so when u broke up they didnt want u they wanted ur guy i mean ex
2006-07-28 17:42:23 · answer #4 · answered by lilangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo get new friends okkk
holla back
2006-07-28 17:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋