ok my so called friend is totally treating me like crap!! here the thing i didn't do anything wrong.. i can't have people call me pass 11 at night well she wanted to call me one night and she got off at 12 she got all mad at me because she couldn't talk to me. well there is more to this promblem she told me she likes this guy well here the promblem she dating someone and she making me choose to keep my mouth shut around him about this and i hate her for doing this to me... i want to tell him that she doing this but i can't because if i do i could possiblely lose a friend what should i do?? i know what i should do but she wont let me tell him!!! this is like black mail for her and she knows how to use it!!!
2006-07-28 10:22:15 · 3 answers · asked by lil_carebear42069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she's not a "friend", and she is using you. it's sad because i'm sure u try ur best to make her happy, and therefore UR doing ur part to be a good friend. however, friends don't always mean they do what someone says... it means the care and support and will try to help that person, even if it means to go against their wishes. u say she is making u choose to keep ur mouth shut... no. she is not making u choose anything, u are choosing to listen to her. don't do it anymore..what is her blackmail?? that she won't be ur friend?? good riddance!! don't fight to keep negative people around you. i think u should focus on trying to build ur own self confidence, the ability to seek and maintain good relationships w/ ur family and positive friends. the more u learn about what a real friend is, the more u will realize that this girl is not Worth ur friendship. start ignoring her, and don't get into her business.... she sounds like a drama queen. eventually she will show her true colors herself, and everyone will know she is not the great person she thinks she is. surround urself w/ positive, healthy, happy people please~
2006-07-28 10:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm well hun seems ur friend is a very selfish person and isn't considering ur feelings at all, i am not saying she isn't a good friend but i am saying she is a good friend whom doesnt seem to have her priorities straight. What u might want to try is telling her what u feel like and that u will no longer be part of that game she is so choosing to play its hurtful to you because u are not that way, and that u choose on keeping out of all this and if it means staying away from her till she gets it together then so be it, a true friend in the end will understand. i am sure she is a true friend , but just needs to be told and maybe left alone to her things, but hun don't suffer if u don't have to..let her know in any other circumstance u are there for her but when it comes to hurting others its not ur style and she is on her own...and pray she learns from it...
2006-07-28 17:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by suga n spice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like an immature drama queen.... i say try hanging out with some different people until she gets all this craziness out of her system and grows up a little more.
2006-07-28 17:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Patti B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋