I was told that due to the injury, I will never have a sex life. I can not produce any sperms either, thus I will never have my own children. I'm a college student and have never been in any intimate relationship before. I'm now with my girlfriend for 6 months and she thinks I'm a gentleman for not making any advances onto her. The most that we had was kissing goodbye as we depart. We share so much in common, but I think it's time to tell her. I'm so afraid I'm going to break her heart. Help me.
2006-07-28 10:15:03 · 10 answers · asked by Young Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she loves you back she'll understand.
2006-07-28 10:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with her. If she really loves you then she will understand. There is much more to a relationship than sex, in fact sex is quite overrated. The important part of a relationship is the emotional connection and the bond that you share with eachother.
2006-07-28 10:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically while you're severe, I actual have some innovations for you. #a million. comprehend that maximum folk assume having a intercourse existence and/or toddlers. once you sense a mutual allure to somebody coming up right into a relationship, you should reveal the counsel and situations approximately your harm until now the relationship is going too some distance. look at it from the different individual's perspective. in case you will never had your harm, might you opt to fall in love after which discover out the different individual ought to no longer fulfill a lifelike expectation to be sexual in a relationship? #2. it extremely is complicated to have faith you have such an harm in the 1st place. Forgive me for being cynical, yet human beings on solutions make up a brilliant style of stuff basically for marvel fee and for reactions. although, in case you have been injured, barring absolute and finished severing of the penis and scrotum (and what variety of harm actual does that?) i do no longer see why for the duration of this present day-day and age you may no longer have something performed to depart you with the capability to function sexually. i've got considered human beings on communicate exhibits who declare to have had intercourse ameliorations from lady to male and likewise declare to have functioning genitals. look into that. #3 it extremely is unreasonable so which you would be able to assume any healthy youthful lady (midsection elderly or previous for that count) to commit her existence to a guy without prospect of sexual delight and toddlers if she is childbearing age and needs them. women persons who might try this are referred to as nuns. Sorry, yet they are already married to the Lord. #4. i do no longer think you, yet while it extremely is authentic you have my sympathy. look into scientific interventions. solid success the two way.
2016-12-14 15:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by sherfy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please see a Dr and ask what your options are,
in recent years advances have been made.
When you know all your options talk to her and be open and honest with her. Discuss children by adoption or artificail insemination. I wish you a happy life with her and I hope the two of you can work things out
2006-07-28 10:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by nora7142@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her as soon as possible. If she really values you and your relationship, it wont matter. There are other ways to be intimate in a realtionship than mainstream sex.
2006-07-28 10:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you dont have to produce sperm to have sex, second, even if you cant get it up, you can use your fingers, tongue, toys, etc... Be honest and let her know the predicament you are in. If she loves you this shouldnt matter.
2006-07-28 10:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just because you don't produce sperm shouldnt have any barring on you being able to have an erection....Think about it. men with vasectomies do not produce sperm and they are able to satisfy their partners with out the production of sperm.
There is always oral sex ....so don't let this keep you from being with the one you love
2006-07-28 10:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her immediately. And keep it short and honest. And she might not be able to take it, regardless of how much she loves you. Not your fault, or hers, but withholding the information is neither wise nor kind.
2006-07-28 10:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Irritable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you damaged your penis...have you looked into the pump...there's also another device that can help you have an erection...go and see your urologist...or look online..
2006-07-28 10:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if his girl realy loves you she wont care.
2006-07-28 11:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋