My friends and i fight all the time and they are all about dramma and i hate it I'm trying a new thing but the girls i use to hang with wont leave me alone and they are pissin me off and i want to kick the **** out of them for talking **** to my friend courtny and they are just all dramma and they piss me off but they wont leave me alone!
2006-07-28 10:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by chasten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
drama quenns are old and gay
i used to have those friends...they all ways wanted me to do what they wanted to do...they would boss me around...and they would always use me for there goods...and when i foolishly do what they say they woould leave me....and one day i yelled at then told them to ****** do it them selfs....
2006-07-28 10:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you even answer their calls or spend time with them?
if you don't live next door to them or share an apartment with them then just move on. you are young and will have lots of new friends in your life. most of us have lost track of people we knew back in highschool days. move on to bigger and better things and people. don't tell them that, be mature and just say you are busy. if they say stuff, so what, it doesn't matter, you know it's a lie or gossip. simply consider the source and take the high road. find people who are more intelligent, fun and going places. not people who are always stuck in a shallow groove that is leading no where. find your own path, the people you meet will be on similar journey and more like you. it gets easier after you are out on your own and making more of your own life choices. best thing is to have a good job with money coming in so you do have choices!
stay strong and confident and don't buy into the b.s.
a guy, who I used to think was really old, (ha, now I'm old!) once told me, "an arguement is just an exchange of ignorance."
I always remembered that and tried not to get dragged into too many....sometimes though when I do, (like with a co-worker that torques me off sometimes) i look at a little piece of paper stuck to my moniter with the wordes: "YOU DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO ATTEND EVERY ARGUEMENT YOU ARE INVITED TO."
So just chill, move on and make a better, less stressful, more meaningful life for yourself.
Good Luck, and Keep the Passion, it will serve you well as you strive towards the things that inspire you.
2006-07-28 10:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell them that you don't want to hang with them anymore? If so and they're still bugging you, then...Change your phone numbers (or not), and block their emails. If they come over, tell them you don't want anything to do with them anymore and if they continue to bother you that you'll have a restraining order out on them...course that is the extreme measure.
I think you're just maturing a lot faster than your "friends," and they don't know what to do.
2006-07-28 10:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is time to think about your relationship with them and decide weather they are truly your friends. After you spend time with them, think: Do they make you feel good? Are you being treated the way you want to be treated? Do I like who I am when I'm around them? Be honest. If you don't like the answers, start spending time with friends that make you feel good.
2006-07-28 10:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by ammanndda*(= 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down. talk to your friends and let it out. i have the same problem girl friend. let them know how you feel and NEVER talk to them until they apologize, make a difference, write you a letter and dance in the middle of the mall in there undies with 2 apples and a pear.
2006-07-28 10:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by disco_dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋