his best friend is also his boss,they ride to & fr.work together the ride is about 1hr but it takes them a little longer and when my bf comes in if his bf don't stay he eats takes a bath and goes right to bed and right to sleep and he never talks to me,But if his bf stays over night he'll sit at the table eating and talking to his bf for an hour or so, then goes takes his bath and right to bed and right to sleep. But if i say anything to him about it he gets really mad. they have 1hr in the mornings and 1hr in the evenings ,so where do I fit in or do I and how can I make him see this is hurting me ? I am always the last one to no anything, I feel like he is putting his bf before me and before us!!What should I do ???
2006-07-28 10:00:58 · 29 answers · asked by kingle65 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's to much whenever you say. You are enslaved by your feelings for your BF and you will only be free when you stand up for yourself. So what if he gets upset..his actions upset you. One other point, start staying away when his friend is there. See how long it takes him to bring the subject up. Then you will have your opportunity to tell him exactly how you feel and when you do if things don't change then get the heck out.
2006-07-28 10:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by thonen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question says that it's too much for you already. Tell your boyfriend how you feel and if he chooses to say nothing to the best friend than take it upon yourself to say something to the best friend, (I would)
Good luck
2006-07-28 10:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hint and get out of the mix. They don't want you around but he doesn't feel comfortable asking you to leave since you live there and all.
2006-07-28 10:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking control of your environment. Think about it. Do you have control of the situation? If not, then you have some thinking to do and actions to proceed with. I'm sure you'll do something about it when you are fed up enough.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 10:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by em_info2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a relationship. It sounds like wants you as his housesitter. Either confront him or leave. No one deserves to be treated this way in a relationship.
2006-07-28 10:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Raz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how to get rid of him,,, You start to flirt with his friend in front of him, then when your b/f confront you about it, you tell him you where not flirting, then do it again some other day and again you tell him the same,,, sooner than later his friend will be disappearing. (yup! your b/f will make him disappear!
2006-07-28 10:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Justanothergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave some period pads around the room, and he'll never hang there again.
2006-07-28 10:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by stranger2ooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a bone head. I'd leave him.
2006-07-28 10:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are complaining now and asking if its to much then it is. Let him know it bothers u and then maybe he will do something about it. If he dont then go and find someone else.
2006-07-28 10:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by juliebean97 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋