Okay, need some clarification, I know.
What I mean is there some point of being in debt, of not being a part of a particular faith or group, of not being a contributing member of society, of not having any liking or love towards others and/or themselves, of already going through the hospitals, the therapists, the meds, etc where it is just simply better for everyone if one was no longer here.
In a nut shell that's the question, once again to stress while I feel this way, I am not presently suicidal (long ago gave up the dellusion of a successful attempt).
Any help would be great, just trying to look for, if possible non standard answers to give a unique perspective.
2006-07-28 10:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by eagleland06 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Suicide is the ultimate selfishness. Sure, go ahead and end your life. Its over for you. But what about the ones you leave behind? The pain and grief they will spend years suffering over losing a son/daughter/sister/brother/grandchild ... And what about the cost? A decent funeral costs between $6,000 to $10,000. Do you really want to put your family through that. Are your troubles SO much more important that checking out rather than being mature and facing responsibility worth doing that to the people who care about you? But then, that's just my perspective.
2006-07-28 10:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Emm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Suicide is contrary to the natural order. I was suicidal a long time ago, and there was obviously something that kept me from doing it. No matter what religion you are or what you believe, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. My Grandfather was very very sick with cancer, and many people I loved thought that he should be given the option to overdose on pain medication. I could see in his eyes that he endured this pain because he wanted to be with us every last second that he could. I would give anything to see him again, but once you are gone, that is it.
2006-07-28 17:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F religious notions on this topic. I say if you don't want to be here it's pretty easy to be gone. It's your life and you can make something of it or watch it flush down the drain. If you don't have any self worth, no one can give it to you. So go ahead and off yourself if you want. Remember that it is a one way ticket.
Also just don't make a huge mess for someone else to clean up you inconsiderate punk.
2006-07-28 17:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by cannon1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is the most selfish act I can think of. Usually is used to control others feeling about them. In cases of pain, illness, etc., I think the value of life issue is so important that enduring whatever it is would be worthwhile just to affect society around us to care more about their own and others lives.
2006-07-28 17:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right time, because its unacceptable. If everyone just gave up when life got hard there would be no one left on this earth. Life is about perservering and bettering ourselves, we go through tests to be victorious at the end!
Keep your head up!
= )
2006-07-28 17:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by classy sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very beutiful like a new baby coming from the womb. Its new everyday. Everyday you wake up to a new position that you where sleeping in. When you wake up you have a will to live. You live to see tommorow. You win to play lotterys go to work see friends or relatives. What coexists today and tommorow. You live to drive your new car. For me its to wake up next to my husband the one Ive dreamed of all my life and to see him say I love you and kiss me. Life everyday is about starting over from scratch the next day. You never know your end but when your in your bed at the hospital or with family all around you know you've finished well with your life. Its what takes over our bodies and kills us that kills the life of our left behind. Love your days alive for If you love to live you shall live because of god.
2006-07-28 17:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually I would say it comes from a lost. as in your spouse dies, your child dies, you have no friends, no job, no income and things just keep piling up and up. Some people feel that killing themselves is a way to escape this and move on. So glad your not that way anymore and keep up the good work..
2006-07-28 17:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by samshel1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. even if you die naturally with debt and everything, you cud find a way to be happy before that happens. get a pet, find a friend. i cud be your friend. i've been there, trust me, it's not worth it to just give up.
2006-07-28 17:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is so much to live for....even tho u feel despair there are many things that u can do to make the most of ur time here while ur here...people die everyday when its ur time...it'll happen u shouldnt try to rush it :o)
2006-07-28 17:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, get a job.
second of all, try to cut down on expenses to get rid of your debt
third of all, find a person to marry
don't give up, and understand that you have to improve your life.
2006-07-28 17:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋