How do I know if my boyfriend is gay?

Question

I feel like I'm answering my own question here, but things like this worry me: he needs Viagra to maintain an erection inside me, though he's fine during oral sex (but can't come without finishing himself off.) And, just the other day, during phone sex, I said I was about to come. He said sure, you can come on my stomach. He denies he is gay, though.

Answer 1

I think the best way to handle this is just come out and ask him. I am sure you will be able to tell if he is telling the truth. Facial expressions and body language etc.....

Answer 2

wow....this is too bad. I think the whole aral sex thing is not so bad beacuase some guys really can't *** off of that...but him asking you to *** on his stomach is pretty gay. I would not say ask him straight out like that because he might get offended and blaim stuff on you. Ask him questions that are not so direct but point to him being gay like "would u like a 3-some with another guy" or ask him how much he likes having sex with you...stuff like that. but I wish you the best....and also if you have feelings that he's gay go get your self checked out....just to be sure in the closet bi sexual men have been known to spread aids to their partners.

Answer 3

Are you considering marrying this guy? Do you think he is cheating on you?

If you answered no to both of these questions, and the rest of your relationship is good and enjoyable, I'd say don't rock the boat, enjoy your relationship, and let things run their coarse.

What do your friends say? One of them should have sharp instincts on this kinda thing.

Answer 4

you know your boyfriends gay when you're having phone sex you tell him you're gonna *** and he say go ahead on my stomach

Answer 5

just ask him straight out

Answer 6

ask him if he likes closets

Answer 7

if he has a boyfriend

Answer 8

you ask him