and felt really guilty for taking away her hapiness. I didn't cheat or anything like that. I just was honest to her and told her that I do not feel anything for her anymore, the feelings I had for her unexpectedly vanished. She was really serious about me and even would say yes if I asked her to marry me. But I didn't want to continue on fooling myself and fooling her if we continued our relationship. I just wanted us to be friends but she refused it (ofcourse she would). She was really lonely after the breakup. It made me feel really guilty. I even wished to God to take away the hapiness in my love life (if ever there is to be one) and give it all to her? Now, it has been 3 years and I keep on thinking that what I wished for came true because I've been very lonely the whole time. You think that God really took it away or is it just Karma?
2006-07-28 09:48:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first of all let me just say that you are a real man. if God was going to do anything to you for what you did, it wouldnt be punishment. it takes a real man to come foreword and tell someone how you feel. the fact that you wished all your happiness to her, that just shows even more what a great person you are. i think that you are preventing yourself from having a happy relationship with someone else. just know that you dont have to feel guilty about what happened. feelings change and you did the right thing by telling her instead of leading her on. im sure shes not hanging on to this as much as you are. give yourself a break and find someone that you can give all that love you have. you deserve it.
2006-07-28 10:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. you've merely been mutually for 2 weeks, it really is not any longer somewhat that lengthy. the sorts of belongings you assume isn't something adult males frequently disclose until eventually a touch later. Your lack of self belief ought to really be the reason of him distancing from you. I remember with my very last boyfriend, i did not listen from him as many times as I used to and that i freaked out. He did not understand why I acted that way because i'm meant to trust his be conscious. in case you choose this relationship to artwork, you've were given to locate uncomplicated techniques to trust his be conscious better many times. I recommend, merely because he's not any longer behaving in the way you assume him to does no longer mean he would not care about you. relax round him better, and the better you adult males get to carry close one yet another, the better he will open up. Now in case you've been courting for a pair of months, it is a diverse tale, even if the relationship remains at an rather informal aspect, so do not rush it. take exhilaration in the time you spend with him, and once your lack of self belief spells are lengthy previous, he will carry your hand and say so long back, or perhaps later he will open as a lot as you.
2016-11-26 21:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by dysart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God to help you find love and pray for your ex. You did the right thing. Better she found out then than to have you divorce her. Move on with your life.
2006-07-28 10:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a person feel one way or another. Each individual will feel the way s/he lets her/himself feel. If she had a problem getting over your break-up, she needs to talk to someone.
If you keep beating yourself up for being honest with her, you will keep feeling down. If you tried to let her down easy, that's all you can do.
Both of you need to stop moping around and get on with your lives.
2006-07-28 10:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's karma or anything like that, I think the reason is that your time has not arrive yet, just wait, don't look for love and you will see..... Good luck.
2006-07-28 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful what you ask for : )
I think that maybe you aren't ready to start another relationship until resolving these feelings you are having.
make peace however you need to.
I don't think God is out there toying with us - He teaches us lessons if we are willing to learn them.
good luck
2006-07-28 10:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by lady left the tramp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you took it away yourself, and that you still love this girl.........just because u don't get that feelin doesn't mean it isn't so, you might have just gotten comfortable enuff with her that u didn't "feel" it as much as know it. Go find her and hope she hasn't moved on.
2006-07-28 10:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, God really took it away
ask Him that u learned your lesson, u will never break a girl`s heart again.
What is done, is done, there is nothing u can do.
Just tell Him that ir sorry for breaking her heart.
2006-07-28 10:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Your best friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
2006-07-28 09:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋