Have you guys ever heard of "milking"? (I think it's where a woman puts her finger in a man's anus and massages his prostate.) This is something I've always wanted to try with my husband because I've heard that it's awesome. Anyone have any experience with this?
Also, how would I get him to loosen up/relax (mentally) enough to let me do this? He's pretty adventurous when it comes to me, but he won't let me do this.
2006-07-28 09:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by brevejunkie 7 in Health ➔ Men's Health
In the movie road trip they do this when he goes to donate sperm and he gets addicted to it.
But outside of movies there was a guy who actually let me do this and he loved it, the problem was he loved it so much that he wanted it done on a regular basis and I went to bed more than once unsatisfied.
As for loosening him up, let him do it to you first, and lots of alcohol usually does the trick. Ok it doesn't make women *** as instantaniously as guys but it can still be pleasurable and then guys feel like your just even or doing each other the same favor like 69'ing.
Most guys don't want to try it because they are afraid it makes them gay or less masculine.
2006-07-28 09:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
If he doesn't want to, you don't get to - just like men can't force women to have sex.
If he's interested in it, then you just need a little personal lube on your finger and that'll do the job. You will need to cut and file your nails. The inside lining of the rectum is quite delicate - if you scratch it, you are exposing him to infection.
The prostate is situated around the urethra, just inside the anus. Pushing in and up will stimulate the prostate, but don't be too rough - it can be quite painful.
When done properly, it can be very erotic.
2006-07-28 16:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fun! I think I will research that one. I have heard of it but I haven't thought of it in years. Sounds like just the sort of goofy fun we like to have!
Thanks for the idea :-)
Ohhh, by the way, this might help work him into it. Start by massaging his anus with a vibrator (no penetration). As he relaxes with that start lubing the vibrator (hopefully one not too big around) and slowly insert it. A fully inserted vibrator on full vibrate setting will create a very intense massaging vibration against not only his prostate but throughout his abdomen. My guy went wild from it! Said he could feel a pleasurable vibration throughout about half his body!
2006-07-28 16:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf gets all weird if I even try this.
I'm actually responding to this because of the answer you gave concerning my question on a bad way to promote anti-abortion. You gave a very thoughtful answer in my opinion. I was opposed to exposing children to the sights of pictures along the street depicting aborted fetuses. You said that if it sticks with children (particularly girls) then maybe it is a good thing. I guess you have a point there. Children are exposed to many things no matter what we do and if the girls remember this it may have a positive influence on them. One of of the people who answered said she had had an abortion and regrets it. I personally am pro-choice but would prefer that people not choose to go this route. Children are a blessing. So thank you for your answer.
2006-07-28 22:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman but here's what i did... while performing oral on my partner i massaged his testicles and made sure he enjoyed it... then i slowly moved lower (be sure to be very gentle at first) to massage the small bump between the base of his penis and his anus. again i made sure he was enjoying it and it felt good... then i moved closer to his anus... when you've gone as far as is comfortable for him he will probably either tell you thats far enough or adjust his position. it took a few times of doing this for him to be completely comfortable with having me mess around down there... but he first time he orgasmed while i massage his prostate he was hooked... he loved it.
good luck and enjoy
2006-07-28 17:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by Patti B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u push on a pea sized bump about an inch inside of him.... toward the front... move you finger as if to say "come here" pun intended of course......
as for getting him to relax ...good luck.... but getting him to cooperate is easier.... is there something he wants to do that you wont let him? bribe him....say if you let me do this....then you can do that.
i bribe my husband all the time....works like a charm
2006-07-28 16:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Stevie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and i have no idea why any one would do that but to get him relaxed shut the window cover them up and walk nude around the house mybe that will help ok if this does not work email me ok i have yahoo Im and msn hotmail IM ok.
2006-07-28 17:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cut your nails first you wouldnt want to rupture his anus
tell him it will make his orgasm stronger and more plesurable cause thats what it does
2006-07-28 16:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds awful, I'm not going to lie.
2006-07-28 17:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by doubled254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has a couple of butt grapes dangling and doesn't want you juicing them!
2006-07-28 16:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋