2006-07-28 09:32:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You poor, poor men!! Some of the ladies seem to have the idea.. Now lets hear a good GUY version of the answer!!!!
2006-07-28 09:43:04 · update #1
Don't jump my bones without talking to me first!
Tell me I am beautiful, hot stuff and exciting the best looking body you ever seen and really look at it. don't just do your thing.
Include me in the experience, by talkling and cuddleing and wrestleing around. When I'm ready then lets do it together.
But I need emotional forplay long before the other.
Start in school, telling me how much you want me by night time I Maybe ready to go.
2006-07-28 09:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
It's really called Love Language. Love language is the emotional 'deposits' you put in your mate's emotional 'bank account.' Just like a normal bank account, if you don't deposit money, you can't make a withdraw. Or, if you make one big deposit, it will hold you for a little while, you will be able to make several withdraws, maybe. But what happens when that money runs out? You go into a negative balance. It's the same way with our Love Language. It's something you see in your mate that she/he needs to fulfil her 'account' - If those needs are not being met, she/he will not be able to give you a 'withdraw'.
If your mate is telling you they need more from you, give more. The only thing it will cause is more good things for you and your mate. The more you are willing to give, the more you will receive. The more you encourage your mate, the more fulfilled they will feel. So, each person has a different love language they need in order to feel secure, safe and happy within the relationship. They say that for every emotional withdraw, there should be three emotional deposits. Good luck, I hope this helps.
2006-07-28 16:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh, come on! The boy suffers from testosterone poisoning just as we suffer from estrogen poisoning. The only way he will ever understand your need for emotional sex is by loosing the balls and gaining a fully functional uterus. Short of that he will always be clueless.
Your best bet is to make it very clear to him that emotional sex is the hoop he must jump thru to get to the physical sex he wants. The better his emotional sex skills the better his sex life will be. It is a simple cause and effect relationship that can be grasped by even the stupidest male. Training, training, training! I have seen electric dog collars work miracles!
2006-07-28 16:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need it because it means they trust us with their inner most private thoughts / feelings. If my guy didn't flirt like we did in the beginning, I'd be worried. And women live their relationships through the heart, therefore we need someone who is willing to make love grow. Emotional sex is more romanticism. Not that we need 24 /7 romance, but an effort once in awhile to keep us interested is all we ask.
2006-07-28 16:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional sex in my opinion is as follows.
When you're making love and connecting emotionally at the same time. You know where, when, and how to do everything right. Also, it's more than sticking it in and humping away. It's eye contact, its facing each other it's tender kisses and soft touches. All of the above. It's about the sweet nothings that make you remember why you fell in love with your spouse from the start. It's reminding them who they are and reminding them who you are in the midst of it all.
It's the best kind of sex in my opinion, sometimes known as "making love" love being the key word there.
2006-07-28 16:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men think so much differently then women do. Men just think of sex as being sex , women have to have a connection a bond.
2006-07-28 16:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a women I understand what you mean ! Men don't understand that we need to be told that we're sexy, they love us and all that. I've been bored in my marriage and interested in others because I don't get that at home. So a tip to your husband..... ALWAYS put your wife first and tell her what she needs to hear daily !!! Take Care
2006-07-28 16:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional sex goes beyond the physical abstract of sex. It embodies mind and soul. This kind of sex is sooooo good that you will love a person for a loooong time. Trust me
2006-07-28 16:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by cul8r_32 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm. I'm a woman and I don't know what emotional sex is...
If you mean that your husband needs to pay more attention to what you want in bed.. For example, foreplay. Just tell him what you want. You can't expect someone to give something to you if you can't even articulate what it is.
2006-07-28 16:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think is time for you to explain to the world what is it, because no one has never heard of it.
Stop torturing your husband by asking for something that doesn't exist. Poor man.
Jeez
2006-07-28 16:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I new what emotional sex was! I am 33, I just want to be loved by my man, the sex just takes care of itself.....
2006-07-28 16:36:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋