Should I stay this guy's friend?

Question

I have a friend, & he gets into mood swings, & plus he tells me a lot of lies all the time-he especially lies about the way he feels about me, & then later, he admits the truth on a random day. & then I say, "Well why didn't u tell me this before?" & his reply is, "I did not want u angry." He hardly has any friends, & he's 29 yrs. old with an 8th grade special education type level of education. Should I drop his a s s or should I feel sorry 4 him & stay his friend? He's always talking about transsexuals or crossdressers, his church, or kickboxing. He always wants my company, but when I do come over, he's practicing his karate moves or he's online, & not spending enough time with me, as I am his company that I drove like 20 miles, wasting my gas, just 2 go see his sorry a s s. I'm very angry. Thanks 4 the help.

Answer 1

Depends on how good of a friend he is to you. Would you be missing anything if you dropped him as your friend? Maybe his problems are really deep, and you are the only one he trusts.

Answer 2

1. I would say that if you drove 20 miles to spend time with this winner - than you may want to take a good look at yourself in the mirror before you start criticizing others. You have some self esteem issues.
2. If his behavior offends you so much, why do you keep rewarding him by spending more time with him. Again, refer to #1.

Answer 3

I definitely think you should stay his friend but give him pity sex. Make sure he's had a couple of beers beforehand to help out with the mood swings though. If he's practicing karate, keep playing Karate Kid 2 over and over on his dvd to help him with his moves.

Answer 4

Sista Girl! I have been here before, the key is to understand that you can't let people use you as a garbage can to spew their junk ideas, thoughts and opinions in. First, let this person know this is how you feel and continue to remind him when he does this. Second, if he doesn't try to change and respect your wishes, distance yourself from him gradually. It will be difficult at first because of habit. But if he's truly your friend he'll at least try. Who knows, maybe this will help him become a better person!

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Answer 5

He seems like he just wants to hang with you to say he has you. Don't let him hang onto you like you're some whore who he owns. Drop him. I'm sorry. He needs to decied if he wants your company or to sit on the computer insted. Tell him to make that decision but until then, you aren't wasting your gas. You sound angry with him & that sounds like enough to drop him for awhile until he grows up a little.

Answer 6

well What I can Say is that jus Stay Away From Him He
Could Start Trouble one Day and Get u Arrested for Nothing
If I was u jus Don't hang around him or Don't talk to him
nemore all he wants is jus attention

Answer 7

Stay his Friend when it's convenient for you. If he shows up where you are, be nice, but don't waste any more time seeking him out. Eventually, like all things, this too will pass. Peace :)

Answer 8

My best advice...drop him! Obviously he's not worth it. He's also insecure, and seems to be somewhat of a psycho. Is not worth for you to see all this because of him, I'm sure it takes your happy times away...so just drop him, and go on with your life.

Answer 9

sounds like you already know the answer,p.s. I'm available and so are a lot of others,good luck,and don't settle for big problems for Little comfort

Answer 10

i know how you feel i have a friend like that and she is a girl but she doesnt talk about trans- sexualls, anyways i think if he is not retarded than you should try to hook him up with a girl friend if he's not gay. just try to have him go to places and he will begin being very social and fun. if not just hang out with him less.

Answer 11

Drop his a** and look up friend in the dictionary a friend is someone that you can trust. By definition, you cannot trust a liar. By no means is he your friend.