me and this guy ended up being best friends after colliding w/each other during a school fire drill. i should've seen it coming, but later in the year, he wrote me a note saying that he liked me and wanted to get to know me more. at the time, i only liked him as a friend,and i told him that and i broke his heart. he was so sad for days. he bounced back, though and we were still best friends. later in the summer, we were IM'ing and he told me he loved me. i know that he does, but he doesnt act like it. he doesnt call(i always call him) and he rarely emails or IM's me. i thought it was cuz he was moving but its been a few weeks since he's moved and still, nothing! so my question is....what should i do?
2006-07-28 09:20:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok, guess i should've added a few things...yes im a teenager...and i like him a lot...i might even love him. i told him i liked him asa a friend when thats how i really felt. he knows i like him, dont worry
2006-07-28 09:29:19 · update #1
DON'T READ TOO MUCH INTO THE SITUATION, JUST BE HIS FRIEND AND LET GOD HAVE HIS WAY. ALWAYS KNOW, THAT WHAT JESUS HAS FOR YOU IT IS FOR YOU AND CAN'T NOBODY TAKE THAT AWAY FROM YOU. SO, IF IT IS MEANT TO BE, THEN IT WILL BE, SO SLOW DOWN AND JUST ENJOY HIS FRIENDSHIP!
2006-07-28 09:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Prayerwarrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him too? I mean Do you love him?
I had the same thing, I like a guy so much and he wasn't really into me, I am just best friend to him even till now. He always call me all the time and I never call him or write him mails even if I really want to...why?
Coz I know he's still thinking we're no more than best friends...so I'd like to forget about this love I feel...
Maybe he's doing the same thing...he knows you cant love him back so he think maybe he should forget his feeling by not calling you too much or emails you...coz the more he does it...the more it hurt for him...
2006-07-28 09:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend. Don't write the poor guy off however. If he is moving far away, then it couldn't work out anyway, but, there is always time, and, you don't know that maybe someday, things could happen. We know things will, we just don't know what! Don't push him away because at this moment he has deeper feelings for you then you have for him. But don't encourage him either, just be his Friend. Everyone needs friends that love them, how can it be bad? Peace :)
2006-07-28 09:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he love you when you two were only good friends? And if he isn't taking the initiative to call you or contact you in any way, then that doesn't sound like love to me. My advice to you is to just stay friends with him. And even as a friend he should call you sometimes insted of you being the one to call him all the time.
2006-07-28 09:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he "flipped the script" on your a$$!! Instead of him chasing you, now you are sitting around thinking about him!
FYI....men like the chase. Once you stop making him chase you the thrill will be over and he will move on to something else.
In other words...don't put yourself out there like that. You started out with him wanting you, the worst thing you can do now is change. If he doesn't come back, let him go!
2006-07-28 09:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't bein so forward because the last time you hurt his feelings and he is still sore....you should keep your distance and stop hurting the poor guy. Could you imagine talking to the person you love all the time and them im you and call you but then say they don't want ot be with you?
2006-07-28 09:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by F.Duke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u only want to be his friend, it does not matter if he loves you or not, ur not interested remember. at least that's what u told him. i did not read ur profile to find out how old u r, but if ur a teenager or younger, he probably just said he loves u to get u in bed. dont fall for it. all the guys play that role sometime in their life. it's on page 2 of the "How to be a man handbook".
2006-07-28 09:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Vizhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him a call and tell him how you feel about him not being your friend. Tell him that you miss him and want him to be the friend that you expected him to be.
2006-07-28 09:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Kidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested, call him, set up a meet, and lay it all out for him. He either reacts appropriately, or you can move on without hesitation and without regret that you didn't try.
2006-07-28 09:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You turned him down so although he admitted to loving you, he's now scared to come to you. You'll have to go to him. Ego's are a hard thing to heal.
2006-07-28 09:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋