I am married and I LOVE sex when I have it but I just get tired and lazy and just don't feel like it frequently. What can I do to want it more? My husband never complains but I think he would like it if I wanted him more......I also think it would just be nice to keep the marriage spicy! Thoughts?
2006-07-28 09:19:47 · 6 answers · asked by Nicolleta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I went to my doctor because I was having some problems with stress and depression and he prescribed me Wellbutrin XL. He told me that doctors prescribe that for three reasons:
1. Depression
2. To help with quitting smoking
3. Low LIBIDO!
I had no idea about #3, but I can honestly tell you it works for low libido. Plus, your orgasms come quicker and are more intense.
Just...don't go off of it (I did that for a short period of time) because when I did I completely lost my orgasm. Big Mistake! I got back on it and within a few days, it came back.
Good Luck!
2006-07-28 09:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by joycestew2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do more things together. I do not mean serious romantic things but everyday things. Go get an ice cream, go swing at the park or go swimming. Things that require no planning and are fun. Go to a water park where there is distance but occasionally you can touch or brush against him knowing you cannot do it there. same thing in public. Do the things that get close but not close enough. When the time is where you can go all the way with everything you desire and labido will heighten. Whatever you do do it together and tease just a little when you know you cannot go all the way. It will work as much for you as it will him. Make him tease you back, kinda like tag. Be careful and take your vitamins as you will create a monster and it might be you. Think he would like a sexual monster, I know I would. Try it, you never know what you will get but when you get it you will at least know how. good luck to you both.
2006-07-28 09:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of sexy thoughts through out the day. Go to an adult store buy some kinky things. Lights some candles put on something you feel sexy in. Have sex in a place where you normally do not have sex outdoor exc...
2006-07-28 09:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, you're nonetheless getting some, so as that's an excellent ingredient. however the subsequent time you get the look, spend it sluggish - and not basically a 10 minute decrease back rub. provide her the works, make it romantic, make all of it approximately her. Make her experience desirable. Make a undeniable she gets to the place she's moving into the past you initiate, which you will communicate. basically then...
2016-11-03 05:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn sometimes ;)
kidding..theres not much you can do ...but rather use your brains a little bit to create imaginary situations...some very romantic situations...kinky stuff u know ;)
2006-07-28 09:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we married? You must be my old lady.
2006-07-28 09:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by taterhog mung-flower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋