Like there was this guy at my school who has a huge crush on me sience forth grade. I was able to handle it in 6 th grade but then is seventh grade he would stalk me at school and then he started stalking my best friend too. And whenever i had a shirt with writing on it he would read it all day long. So i could only wear ulgy blank tee's or a jacket which is kinda hard in spring and summer cuz i live in florida. I can't tell teachers cuz he only does it between bell and when they are off the clock. And he is not like a stalker but a perv and i can't call the police cuz he only does it at skool. I am going into eigth and i wanna know some way's to make this stop. He has this high nasley voice and it pisses me off. I told my bro who is in the same grade as me and he started to talk to him and then they became friends. So i can't hang around him without perv hanging with him,
I tried asking nicley then i started yelling and insulting and then i started full on cursing and he won't goaway
2006-07-28 09:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by EMO cupcake 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
help me befor school starts
i wasn't able to write everything cuz i ran outta letters
he is ulgy fat and short there i is done
2006-07-28 09:18:21 · update #1
You need a huge boyfriend. Maybe ask the kid what it is about you that has him obsessing. Tell him he is freaking you out. Sometimes, when you just confront someone and are just like "look here, what's the deal" they are so flabergasted you're saying something they stop. Either that, or have you're huge boyfriend kick his, well, you know what.
2006-07-28 09:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason he bugs you is because he can. You ignore him and never say a word to him and he will go away. If he gets attention ( and that's what he wants) he will continue to bug you. When he ceases to get the attention you will become boring to him. Get it? Ignore him and he will quit bugging you. It may take awhile but don't give him the satisfaction of a mean look, an annoyed look, or a look period. NEVER talk about him to anyone including your brother. If anyone asks you about him, you say, I don't talk about him and let it go at that. Total ice freeze until he quits period.
2006-07-28 16:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try not to point out anothers flaws, for this will directly reflect on you my dear. school is a place where our minds become shaped, and then become the adults of the future. short of this young boy having a mental illness, he might just see something in you that no other can. so to simply be friends with someone, say less popular, would simply be of credit to your caricature. do you love your bro"? I would think that he would not hang out with someone as you described as a reject. do not change your course of life to fit your friends, but change your friends to fit your course of life. try doing something special for the world one person at a time !!!!!
2006-07-28 16:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Givingitthought 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When school starts you can go to your school counsoler. See what he/she does and if the "perv" continues to stalk you then you could try telling your parents. I hope some of this works. good luck
2006-07-28 18:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by kenyarae1407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to talk to your parents. Tell them what's going on, every little detail you can. Most likely they will be able to talk to his parents, your teachers, or even the police and get him to leave you alone.
2006-07-28 17:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tranquility 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i had that same problem.i asked my mom if i could put a restraining order on him but she said no because the kid that was stalking me was her friends nephew and she thought it would be rude.so i had guy friends tell him to stay the **** away from me.
2006-07-28 17:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by curious lupi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents and teachers. Tell them that his behavior is making you feel very uncomfortable.
2006-07-28 16:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time he goes up to you at school and starts saying crap yell at the top of your lungs "DON'T SAY THAT TO ME!"... I bet he'll leave you alone... and if he doesn't....keep yelling crap like that.
2006-07-28 16:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a huge bf that can scare him, like 180lbs+, whenever he does that, get your bf to chase him away, if i was short and fat, i would run away too, but fortunately, i am not short nor fat.Yay!
2006-07-28 17:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh
make him jelous..
get a bf or hang around with other boys alot..
then he's gonna get jelous..and then he's gonna be sad..then he'll stop..
but do something to make him jelous
2006-07-28 16:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋