I come from a family that does not allow dating. I am not married and this has happened what are my options
2006-07-28 09:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by bfly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Before you jump to conclusions that you are pregnant, first why don't you make sure that you are pregnant. Talk a home pregnancy test. I recomend a First Responce pregnancy test. They are about $8.00 at Wal-Mart and can even detect HGC (Pregnancy Hormone) 5 days before you missed period. You can take this pregnancy test in the restroom stall if you want to. That way you won't have to find somewhere to dispose of it later. Another option is to go to Planned Parenthood and get a pregnancy test done there. They are also $8.00 but are just the same thing that you would buy at the store (I used to volunteer there).
If it does turn out that you are pregnant you do have options. Some of them I agree with, and other I don't.
1) The first and most repectable options is to tell your partner and your parents and work out your options from there. This was you have people to help you. They may not want you to even date - let alone have sex, but it is truly better than living a lie.
2) You could let your pregnancy go full term and in the mean time find adoptive parents for your child. This is also very, very respectable and you could let your child grow up in a loving home and make two parents very, very happy.
3) You could keep your child. Many single parents can give loving home to their children. But if this is not an options condier the top two options, and never have sex again until you are ready for the consequences.
4) There is a pill that causes early abortions. I'm not talking about the morning after pill either. I'm very against abortions - any abortions, but this is an option.
5) There are also the regular abortions.
-vaccuming the child out and ripping it linbs off its body.
-Saline, where the doctor puts saline into the womb and causes the baby to burn to death and a couple days later the woman goes into labour and gives birth to the dead baby.
-partial delivery where the mother deliver just the head of the baby and the doctor shoves a tool inside the baby's head and sucks out the babies brains.
-They induce labour at about 20 + weeks and when the baby is born they lay it on the table to let it die.
-There are also other ways to abort babies.
These are your options. Please consider them closly. If you are pregnant, it was not the baby's fault so please consider the top 3 options. Not only are abortions bad for baby's and agaisnt God, but they are also harmful on woman, both physically and mentally. Some woman have dreams about the baby's that the abourted, some woman can't even hear a vaccum because it brings back horrible memories. I am telling you this because I knew someone that got an abortion.
I hope this helped a little. Have a good day.
***The spellchecker is not working right now, sorry about all of the crappy spelled words.***
2006-07-28 09:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand your question AT ALL. If you feel you may be pregnant then take a test or go to a clinic. If you find out that you are then you have decide whether or not you want to keep the baby. If you decide you do want to keep it you will of course have to tell your parents that you went against the families values...it may be hard, but this was the risk you took when you chose to have sex in the first place.
2006-07-28 16:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility. Tell them. Depending on how old you are hiding it from them could only make things worse. If your in your later teens (18 and above) don't worry about it your an adult. If your younger then that you still need to tell them so there won't be any hard ships down the road.Once you do have that baby they shouldn't even care how things happened to create him.
2006-07-28 16:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by mokittyheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give the baby up for an adoption
Sorry but before you got pregnant you should have been using birth control to prevent it.
2006-07-28 16:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then u would only be a month, and so find out if u really are, and if u dont want to keep if have an abortion. . .even though that is killing another child
2006-07-28 16:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how an act gets you pregnant.
2006-07-28 16:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u need to take ur pride and tell ur parents thats y u should keep ur legs shut. how old are u anyways
2006-07-28 16:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. What was this act?
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2006-07-28 16:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by MacJack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents you need medical care and soon
2006-07-28 16:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start ur own family.
2006-07-28 16:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋