ok im 13 and i like this guy and i read in magazines about how to flirt but im not really sure what some of these magazines r talking about can anybody tell me some ways to flirt with the guy i like!!
thanx in advance!!!
♥Nikki
2006-07-28 09:13:12 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Nikki♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Nikki, when you see him alone, offer him a sweet or a piece of chocolate, something casual. If he refuses (which is your fear) or he says something to his friends, all you have to say is 'All I offered him was a sweet/piece of chocolate'. If he accepts, tell him your name and ask him his. Tell him you like his hair, adding 'I like boys who have hair like that'. Keep on these lines and do not stray into dating or anything like that until you are very comfortable talking with him. Don't forget, don't do all the talking, do a lot of listening to. Boys like being listened to (they like the sound of their own voices). Good luck and take care......
2006-07-28 09:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All you have to do is show you are interested by beign extra nice to the person and go out of your way to be around that person...the guy will pick up the vibes. Dont fall into any of those flirting cliches such as prancing around in sexy outfits or making a connection by brushing up against the person. That stuff is all lame, just be your self.
2006-07-28 16:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by geet840 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is really hard to describe in words.
flirting is an art form.
basically, you want to convey the idea to this boy that you like him without being so obvious that he is sure you like him. you want to keep him guessing. you want to be attentive to him, but not so attentive that your tongue is hanging out of your mouth at the sight of him.
so, he is telling you a story in homeroom. you make eye contact with him, smile, but not cheesy smile, just a small natural grin. don't stare him down though. jsut make frequent eye contact. be interested in what he's saying but not to the point of asking questions like a dog panting for a treat. be nonchalant. say "oh really, that's really cool." or "oh, wow, good for you." but make sure it's in a calm cool way, not like OH WOW!
if you just pass him in the hallway...
make eye contact and smile, but then look away. don't let him catch you staring at him. be sure he notices you and then let him know you have noticed him.
flirting is all about being calm, cool, collected. it will take you next few years to really perfect your flirt, but you'll get it.
you want to convey the message "i like you, but i'm not going to be obvious about it. i am really sweet and nice, but i can give you a naughty grin sometimes that makes you wonder...."
gosh, i hope that helps.
oh..and rule number one....NEVER take his phone number first. you always want to be the one called, unless he icky, then take his number and lose it!
if you like a guy and he tries to give you his number, just tell him that you'll take it, but you don't call boys...so, if he wants to talk to you again, he'll have to call you.
have a smile when you say this and be coy about it, but not bitchy.
good luck!
2006-07-28 16:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't approah him. Let him come to you through your body language. You can smile. Play with your hair. If you engage in a conversation suggest taking a walk or just going some place. If he's smart he knows he's got a good catch...........=)
2006-07-28 16:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
Look in his direction.
Try being natural.
Find out what he likes to do and let him know you have an interest in getting to know that.
If he plays a certain sport, go out and support him!
Let me know if it works. freddiedelange2006@yahoo.com
2006-07-28 16:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Freddie de Lange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋