There is a wild streak in her, that can't deny a challenge.
Someone dared her to go to amatuer night at a strip club.
She thinks she may do it. She thinks it would be fun, and is thinking of inviting some mutual friends to it to cheer her on.
I am okay with it, and find it somewhat exciting.
But when I bring it up, she doesn't want to talk about it.
But when she brings it up, she is all about it.
Should I just let things go, or should I push her, and buy her someof the clothes and etc.?
And by the way, this is true.
2006-07-28 09:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by john s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This needs to be her idea. It does sound like fun and could be exciting.
I almost did it before I got married, but now my hubby won't let me and I am OK with that. You have to think about the feelings you may have after your FRIENDS see her that way... it could stir up some serious jealousy and mistrust on your end, so put that in perspective.
2006-07-28 09:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her do it! She may have a wild side, but that side is for you alone. If you're not a jealous husband, you should be. She's yours to have and to hold, 'til death do you part.
I know it seems like just a little strip tease, but this is how inhibitions get worn down. Later, she may feel like cheating isn't so bad.
Encourage her to have fun in YOUR bedroom. That's the one place where creative sexuality is harmless!
2006-07-28 09:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds about properly, yet be conscious even in what she means, she's nevertheless not saying something certain and the guy continues to be meant to wager at what's happening. that's a capture for him to be at her mercy both way.
2016-10-15 10:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by coombe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she goes to the strip club, I can almost guarantee you and her will be divorced two years from now. There are some fantasies that should not be acted out.
2006-07-28 09:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push..let it happen. My wife did it....our sex was GREAT..she did end up having a relationship with another female dancer and two customers but it was worth it.;
2006-07-28 09:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by michaelmrblonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You push and she won't do it, or , she'll do it and if hse regrets it she'll blame you.
Just let her know you are for it if she wants to do it and hope for the best.
2006-07-28 09:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't push her, let her lead the way. you hold back it wil bring you better results
2006-07-28 09:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋