She had a baby two months ago and looks so great for what her body had gone through. She is very insecure about the stretch marks and about 17 extra pounds. I complement her everyday but **** still feels like crap. How can I make her feel as beautiful as she is.
2006-07-28 09:00:07 · 6 answers · asked by chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't stop what your doing. also, that saying that actions speak louder than words works for lots of women. we have a hard time believing what you say, but there's no denying it if it shows in your actions. what you can do is look at her with a little lust in your eyes, get more affectionate on the parts of her body that look good to you, buy her clothes maybe that accentuate her body and tell her you want to see her in it for that very reason, oh, tell her she is a milf, my husband did that and i kind of liked it b/c i was also insecure post baby. good luck and congratulations on your baby.
2006-07-28 09:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you write that got ****'ed out??
There's really nothing you can do. Men should really blame themselves or society for putting so much emphasis on looks and nice bodies - it makes women feel insecure especially after having gone through pregnancy. They're always afraid their man isn't going to find them attractive anymore - doesn't matter if you try to assure them otherwise. Just take care of her and your new baby and be a good husband. Volunteer for a lot of things and just pamper her as much as you can. Maybe she'll feel better then.
2006-07-28 16:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by ♥iamsleepy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her all the time, every chance you get, that she looks great, find a new and creative way every morning and night to make her feel good about something. Subtle things mean a lot to women; a friendly pat on the behind with an appreciative hum goes a LONG way to making one feel sexy. Be sincere, though!
2006-07-28 16:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by NPB.Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her read this...Wow! No matter how many times my husband told me the same, I still couldn't get comfortable with the new me. If this is about having sex, be patient your wife is going to need time.
2006-07-28 16:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her this question.
2006-07-28 16:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do nothing. Just be with her...
2006-07-28 16:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by Babz M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋