My significant other has a daughter who is so lazy and un appreciative of anything anyone does for her. She doesn't do dishes, mop, vacume. The house is a wreck. She basically puts her kids in front ot the TV and has this massive box of video's they watch all of the time while she lays around and talks on the phone and paints her nails. She has empty toy boxes all over the place with toys scattered along cheese and dirty diapers everywhere. Its too hard to throw it in the trash.
Her dad left her a note on the fridge and told her he was proud of what a great job she is doing as a mother. She is a no working mom who put her kid in the most expensive daycare around and cannot afford to pay her own rent and bills, so she moved home. Her husband is kind of lazy too, but he does have a good job that he quit to become a trucker.
Ole dad says "she's married", so this is the excuse for all of this laziness. He makes it sound like she is some kind of a saint. What would your response be
2006-07-28
08:51:40
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I suppose the reason it aggrivates me is because I work a full time job and raised 2 kids alone without a dime in support, both my parents very eldery and I did it alone.
I am so proud of myself for pulling it off and no one ever told me what a good job I did. When my dad died she laughed when she talked about her little boy watching the funeral persession going down the road in front of the house. I am still grieving and it hurt.
2006-07-28
09:03:40 ·
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If she was in my house, I'd tell her to shape up or ship out. If she wasn't living in my house, I'd probably mind my own business unless the children were in danger.
2006-07-28 08:55:40
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answered by Anonymous
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being married doesn't make sumone a good mother, has nothing to do with it actually.
you and your honey need to have a sit down with her and her honey, give them a time frame to get out, and give them your blessings.
your honey needs to let his "little girl" grow up and actually act like a stay at home mom, not another kid.
Depends on if it's worth putting more of a ripple in your relationship than is already there.
Personally, she'd a been gone, and if she kept house like that I'd warn her once, if no change I'd call the state. Those kids don't know it's wrong to live that way but she sure as heck does.
2006-07-28 11:53:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Pops is the reason she is like that because he is giving her an excuse for being lazy. Being married does not make you a different person, you are still the same person you were before; now the difference is when you make a decision you are making it for two people not one.
2006-07-28 08:56:51
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answered by MR XCITEMENT 1
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Well she sounds like a dirt ball- cheese and dirty diapers!!! Thats gross.
Personally my daughter is 9 months old, i have worked since she was 3 months old and worked all the way being pregnant till one week before I had her!!!! I am married and i help supprot our family. Not all women are peices of sh*t like her.
2006-07-28 08:56:04
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say big deal about being married. She should clean up and take care of her kids and get a job. My brother was married and went to prison and was still married while he was there. The courts sure didnt go "Oh your married? Well go home"
2006-07-28 08:57:17
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answered by laencm 2
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That's crap. Absolute crap. Marriage changes nothing but the two people who are in it, and that doesn't mean it makes them better. Sometimes it makes them a WHOLE lot worse. If you were a slob going into the relationship, you're still a slob....with a shiny new ring!
2006-07-28 08:57:06
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answered by holleygirl11 2
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answered by ? 4
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No I do not. Sounds like this place has gone to hell in a hand bag. This is one LAZY FAMILY I do not have any use for people like that.
2006-07-28 08:57:00
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answered by Anonymous
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No it doesnt, but lots of marrieds seem to think it does.
2006-07-28 08:56:11
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you and your honey need to have a heart to heart talk!
2006-07-28 08:55:13
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answered by Mommymonster 7
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