how do i know if im bisexual?

Question

i like guys and have never been with a female but i have made out with females...i can say that there was atleast one time i was sexually attracted to a female. i like looking at naked women and do get turned on by lesbian porn...could this just be that im curious i mean i dont think i would ever go down on a chick...help if i am ok if im not then ok i just wanna know..i mean it dont really matter cuz im not into labels but it would just help to know

ok im not a teenager im 24 years old so i dont think its hormones...and the only thing i have ever done with another female is make out i have never done anything other than that

i have in the past talked to a lesbian friend about this and she said i was bi cuz im curious

Answer 1

I wish there were more chicks out there like you.

Answer 2

It sounds like you could be bi. Don't lock yourself into labels. Just go out with people you love and make love to people you think are attractive. Losts of girls like to have a little girl/girl fun on the side....and the good thing most men dont mind at all.

Answer 3

Don't be so attached to labels. Sexuality is more complex than that. Lots of women are "bi-curious" or "straight-ish." If you are as likely to pursue a romantic or sexual relationship with boys as with girls, then you are classically bisexual. If not, then you're somewhere else on the spectrum.

Answer 4

You want us to affix a label on you, but you're not into labels.
It makes a difference how old you are and how much experience you've had.
My opinion is that we are all born bi-and lean heavily one way or another, by what we are taught, and opportunity, and acceptance in our group.
I think you should quit trying to label yourself and follow your heart. Enjoy people, and not just body parts.
Eventually, you will figure it out.
You are ok.

Answer 5

there's no such thing as bisexual, you can be sexually stimulated by a member of teh same sex, doesn't mean you are bisexual in the way most people describe it. you are just a very curious person and you are open, that shouldn't mean you have an inherent sexual tendancy towards members of same sex. Some people "have sex" with animals - gross i know. but i KNOW that human as the noble race is not inherently wrong in that sense, just some people like to go beyond what most people do, and it HAPPENED to be "being sexually stimulated by girls" with you

Answer 6

okay take it from too gay partners here davveey stevie, hons, okay only you can make up your pretty litle mind on what you want here okay if you atracted too, women, okay the best experience that i can think of is meet another lesbian that you ae comfortbale with sit downe with her woman too woman and ask her questions okay, ounce into the converssation, if you dont fel its for you and men is your ticket then just make up , excue and, leave, you wiil know what direction you are headed okay, if you want too go one further and want womann, try having sex with one lesbian but tell her plainly look iam experminting okasy, this may nott be my thing okay, you lok, at womans nakeed, pisc big deal, its nothing that you cant do in private hons look, if womwann are what you want us gay dudes here have no shame in being in bed with men okay its your choice but bye first finding a true lesbian talking it out and going further is the right direction okay, good luck honss

Answer 7

I'm attracted to men but I think women are beautiful to look at. That doesn't mean you're gay or bisexual....I'm guessing you're a teenager, and at that point in your life, your hormones are all over the place and you think you're attracted to anything at that point. It kinda scared me that I was very attracted to some girls in high school...but by the time I got to college, I realized it wasn't attraction, it was just that women are beautiful, but I love men for relationships :)

Answer 8

Being bisexual is more of a choice than a state of being. My wife refers to it as just plain greedy. I refer to it as the best of both worlds.

If you enjoy kissing other women, find them attractive in a sexual way and imagine being with other women then yep, you are bisexual.

And yes, you are fine. Nothing wrong with that at all. In fact makes you about the best thing since sliced bread to most men AND most women.

Prepare for your social calendar to be very, very full.

Answer 9

Right now only you have the definite answer to your question. Given the information, you're Bi-curious at this point. You would have to do the actual deed before you could consider yourself bisexual.
You're normal, many people get aroused by many different things - thats life.

Answer 10

Very open of you to be mindful of your feelings. Homosexual tendancies are in all people.... Woman ack on the feelings on average of 65% and men 15%. THat is for the straight crowd. Go for it and experiment, that what life is all about, joy, just do not hurt anyone along the way, including yourself, be safe and take it slow.

HAVE FUN!

Answer 11

if you are like attracted to and sexually turned on by both men and women, that is the DEFINITION of bisexual. Good for you! Sounds like you will have lots of fun, if you can get over any hang ups you have.