2006-07-28 08:42:56 · 8 answers · asked by Joe W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you want to leave a good person who loves you???? Any reasons??? Something wrong with you?
It is a blessing to find a good person who loves you. It is better to marry a person who loves you than marrying a person whom you love but she does not love you.
First stay separately for sometime and see if you miss her. If you are still not feeling comfortable wth your girl friend then break as soon as possible without wasting each other's time.
2006-07-28 08:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you just don't see any future in it, when you just don't want to do it anymore, when it seems like the bad outweighs the good or when you just plain old aren't content with it anymore. Its hard when you know someone loves you but look at it this way, if you stay with her when its not really where you want to be you are just delaying the inevitable anyway and keeping her from finding someone that will love her as much as she loves them, and that isn't really doing her any favors at all, its just wasting her time and yours. You get over break ups but time that is gone you can never have back. Good luck.
2006-07-28 15:47:48 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to leave when you can't find a single reason to stay with her. It's time to leave when no matter how nice she is, you would rather be with someone else. It's time to leave when you realize that you are no longer the same person that you were when you started. And finally, it's time to leave when you know in your heart that you are not loving her the way that she deserves, and that you are only standing in the way of someone who could.
2006-07-28 15:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by holleygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL WHEN U KNOW THE RELATIONSHIP IS'NT GOING ANYWHERE AND U WANT MORE OUT OF IT. IT'S ONLY FAIR FOR THE BOTH OF U, BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN A COUPLE OF WEEKS TO A MONTH LATER U MISS HER AND U DISCOVER THAT SHE IS AN ESSENTAL PART OF YOUR LIFE. BE SURE ABOUT IT. I THINK IT FAIR THAT U TALK TO HER ABOUT TO SEE WHAT SHE FEELS LIKE.
2006-07-28 15:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you post a question like this on Yahoo answers.
2006-07-28 15:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As soon as possible. Don't waste her time or yours if you have no long term interest.
2006-07-28 15:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "when" is when you don't love her. Please don't marry your girlfriend if you don't love her; maybe it's time for you to have an honest sit-down brass-tax discussion.
OTBPOC
2006-07-28 15:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by otbpoc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a reason to....which it obviously sounds like you dont.
2006-07-28 15:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋