i split up with a girl 4 years ago. The reason why we broke up is coz my family did not like her race and also did not like the fact she was different, i was young and stupid and ended breaking up with her. I want to go back and explain to her that i was young and was influenced and want her know her better, do you think she will accept my friendship?
2006-07-28 08:39:50 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try it dude. Listen to your heart not your family.
Hope you get her back.
2006-07-28 08:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Les-Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she will because four years is a long time. She would feel that you should have gone to her sooner. She might have moved on with her life and at this point, you should not expect her to want you back. However, asking us will not solve your problem. You better go ask her. Good luck
2006-07-28 08:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let,s hope so I was influenced by the beliefs of my parents but on reaching adulthood I soon realised that I had a mind of my own and could make my own decisions.for your own peace of mind at least try to make amends with this girl
2006-07-28 08:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope so. mine and my husbands was a little different. his family and friends thought i was from the wrong side of the tracks an i wasn't pretty enough. well, he broke up with me and 32 years we got back together and have been married for 14 years.
2006-07-28 08:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sit down and talk to her and tell her how you really feel about her and that you would like to be friends again then yea maybe she will accept to be friends with you but you must also explain your reasons for leaving her.
2006-07-28 08:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years at your ages is a long time, but you won't know if you don't pursue it. If it works out, I would prepare my family before I brought her around. If you like her, you need to protect her.
2006-07-28 08:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be fine. Tell her you now know better, that its not important what color you are. Tell her your family will not influence your thoughts and feelings anymore. Just be honest.
2006-07-28 08:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Esplot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno, cud try but hey, she might be with someone now that she truely loves.she might be engaged or i dont know. are you sure she is still single? do you want it to be like the way it was as girlfriend/boyfriend or just good mates? u cud give it a go. knowing is better than not knowing at all eh? try it. u might be surprised or...i dont want to say this, but dissappointed too. good luck.
2006-07-28 08:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go back and seek forgiveness, try it. Ultimately it depends how she felt at the time and now.
2006-07-28 08:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by izzieere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow your dreams and your heart. dont get your hopes up as 4 years is a long time. godd luck and hope you get her back.
2006-07-28 08:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋