2006-07-28 08:32:14 · 25 answers · asked by Ms.D 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No
2006-07-28 08:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People keep saying "would you buy a car w/o driving it or clothes w/o trying them on". Really though, those things are not intimate. How many would like to try on someone else underwear or other intimate garments. How many people will have tried your spouse before you have them.
A second thought, If everyone would wait util after marriage to experiment (with their spouse), the two would grow together and you cant miss what you never had. There will never be a fear that someone was better or in the back of your spouse's mind. There is a reason we were created to wait. Not Only emotional health but also physically.
How many non-sexually permiscuous people do you know have STDs? There is a reason.
2006-07-28 09:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by train 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex and love are two separate things. Sex and love together is optimal but why shouldn't you enjoy sex with someone beforehand or with someone you don't necessarily want to marry? All you're doing is getting naked and having fun and hopefully both having an orgasm. What makes it special and better though with someone you love or are married to is that you really care about the other person's pleasure moreso than your own. What also makes it better when you've had sex before marriage is that you've done all the practice time and you know what pleases you and how to please your partner.
I swear I wish people would drop all of the morality issues surrounding sex and see it for what it really is - an enjoyable and pleasurable experience between people who've made a connection and a conscious decision to have some naked fun!
2006-07-28 08:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK what year is it 2006...no I dont think that is how things should be...besides why would you want to wait until marriage...you would be missing out on all the fun that other people are having. I am not saying go out and be a slut but if you find someone you really really like and they feel the same way and if you have been together for some time I would go for it. We dont live in the 50s anymore.
Anyways it is only your business what you do and when you do it~
2006-07-28 08:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lucid_dreams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, when you save yourself for marriage you have a bond with your spouse that you can have with no one else. It's one more memory to share that will be everlasting because sex is a part of life and as long as your in a relationship will always be there.
If you find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, why would you want that memory that can only be created once to be with someone who you can't recall it with later.
Your only a virgin once.
I waited until marriage and I love the feeling of knowing that I have only been with my husband, and sometimes it feels like that very first time all over again, in my heart, the nervousness, eagerness, love. You can't beat that feeling.
2006-07-28 08:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by fatima_mst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is kind of like a vinyl record. If you start experiencing it before marriage you set certain patterns and expectations that your partner may not want to participate in. Its far better to make that record together so that your experience is shared and your patterns and expectations are built together.
2006-07-28 08:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think so when I was involved in church cause it had been drilled in my brain from birth (raised catholic) but I changed my mind about 3 years ago. I think it's ok if you are in love only...not for one night stands. I tried one of those & it just sucks...it's soooo much better when you love the person!
2006-07-28 08:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by §uper ®ose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do believe that. my religion enforces it, to save yourself for marriage, but not everyone follows it like they should be doing, for the people that follow that religion.
2006-07-28 09:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis Samira 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
In fact I think it's rather foolish. If two people are not sexually compatible how can a marriage last?
2006-07-28 08:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you can handle the potential regret after you do it with the wrong person then I say go for it and enjoy the sex.
But if you're the type of person who's regret goes a long way.....then save your self for the right person.
2006-07-28 08:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it should be "saved" for whenever the two people involved- are ready for it.
2006-07-28 08:38:44 · answer #11 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋