2006-07-28 08:27:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
That's the way it is for everyone. If everyone in the world had the same opinion and viewpoints it would be very boring. As long as you have more people who like you rather than hate you don't stress about it.
2006-07-28 08:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple human nature to want to be loved by all, however this is impossible. I myself purposely caused people to dislike me so they would have to explore my personality to find my good qualities. This is a drastic measure and not recommended, but by causing people to understand you gains you true and close friends that will stick with you through thick and thin. I believe that having a few close friends is more important than having many acquaintances that simply know your name. Improving your personality can help you win good and solid relationships. By asking friends and family what they find annoying about you and striving to change these areas will cause growth and a lasting maturity that educated and intellegent people will recognize and respect. Become more of a listener than an advice giver. Ironic I should say that hey! Be confident in the goodness of your heart and willingness to help others not looking for rewards or expecting repayment, this will strengthen your soul and improve self- esteem. After time you'll find people seeking you out for your advice and companionship. The knowledge of knowing close friends trust you and enjoy your company gives you confidence and allows you comfort in times of distress. To all others it's their ignorance and misfortune for not taking time to learn the gifts you have to share with them. Strive to go out of you way to help those near and dear to you, however don't forget to help all you can with in reason. Some will take advantage of you.Try to avoid them they will only drag you into their cold and dark world of dissatisfaction. Some people aren't worth having them like you. Association could cause some of their traits to rub off on you. This is a bad thing and could cause years of rebuilding ones charracter to regain a proper quality persona personified. Spell Check stop working and the last few words looked cool together.
2006-07-28 09:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by gtm2themax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is this thingy called difference of opinion. Just imagine if everyone who you have ever met loves you.. well them you will be some kind of saint, ignore the people who "hates" you and embrace the people who loves you.Why mingle with people who only will put you down and make you negative.Mingle with people who bring the best out of you... Good luck, try ignoring them they will get angrier when they see that they cant get any reaction out of you.
2006-07-28 08:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by CatScratch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that's life, if everybody loves you you would be perfect and nobody is, and besides, different people have different opinion, and even if you are good to everyone there is aways someone out there that will hate you for that
2006-07-28 08:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by jagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal but an intelligent man is able to maintain the love of those who love him and change the hatred of others to love.
2006-07-28 08:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause all haters hate because they hate something about them self, and you may have that something. The people who love you are complete with them self.
2006-07-28 08:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Hey Now! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose you haven't considered the fact that this is how it is for every person in the world. Why? Because people are different, have different views, have different tastes and likes and dislikes. It's natural.
2006-07-28 08:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by sparksdonnen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether they love or hate you probably has more to do with them than with you. It reflects their personal preferences and prejudices.
2006-07-28 08:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Heron By The Sea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have been a prick to the ones that hate you and not to the ones that like you
2006-07-28 08:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you can't please everybody!
2006-07-28 08:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋