How can I convince my wife 4 a threesome. With another female?

Answer 1

She don't want to don't force her. You are married and should respect her and not force her to do anything like that she don't want to do.

Answer 2

It really depends on the type of relationship you guys currently have. Number one you have to make sure that she knows you think she is a knock out...if she has any type of self esteem issue going on than it will be harder to convince her (she will think you just want someone else), also do you guys go out often? If not then start taking her out to dinner and for drinks...get her used to a fun free lifestyle so that eventually the idea of a threesome wont seem so outrageous. Dont coem right out and ask just yet....when you guys are out drinking at night just slip the idea in little by little, hey you never know she may be slightly interested but hasnt said anything to you about it. Oh and by th eway if there have ever been any issues of you cheating on her in the past then dont even thin about it....

Answer 3

My Husband and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for years, and it is without question the best relationship decision we made. We are so very tight and have a lot of fun. Swinging is a great experience because you get to go date other people with your best friend (your hubby or wife). I suggest sitting with her and checking out some swinging websites lifestylelounge is a good one...approach this very carefully as it could blow up in your face, put her on a pedestal and make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world..happy swinging

Answer 4

You have good communication before you ask. If you build up good communication, and have good communication, you'll know if women turn her on or not. If they do, and if it's something she likes, then you can go from there.

If you just out of the blue "hunny i wanna have a threesome" you might get a raised eye brow and have to sleep on the couch.

Answer 5

Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.

Answer 6

She is your WIFE! You do not respect your weddings vows. Why would you want to convince her to do something like that? Isn't She enough? You people are so caught up with recent fantasies that some of you are losing your minds. It is a reflection of anomality.

Answer 7

Well I would just be truthful with her, and tell her " lets try something different, and I want to share this experience with you and no one else. Let her know how far you will go with this other woman. " Let her know it will be you all secret and it will never happen again unless she approves! Tell her that a little spice is alright as long as we agree upon it together ! No lies, No secrets!

Answer 8

If she is smart you will not be able to convince her. Be happy with what you have. This society is way too sexed up. Keep your sexual fantasies to yourself. Everyone will be happier in the long run.

Answer 9

Chloroform?

Answer 10

whats ur problem? why would you want to convince ur wife to go and do something that she's against? i think ur selfish and you don't deserve to be married!!! if you wanted to be with more than one woman at one time...than you shouldn't have gotten married........LOSER