How would you let your wife increase her love to you rapidly as long term plan?

Question

in other words: How to avoid the - one level- love between married couples.
Many married people claim that love after marrige always goes less and lesser through out the years, and somuch people they complan that his / her love towards his/her spouse is no more there! SO WHAT WOULD YOU DO TO AVOID THIS PROBLEM, AND LET YOUR AND YOUR SPOUSE LOVE TO GO FORM A LEVEL TO THE NEXT CONTINOUSLY, AND YOU JUST DONT KEEP IT ON ONE STADY LEVEL!!

Answer 1

One of the main reasons a relationship starts to decline is one or both partners forget to continue to work on the relationship.

During the courting phase, both parties are "on", doing things to attract the other party. However, once the relationship settles down, they forget to keep doing those things. Eventually, they settle into a rut and forget about the love that was there, almost becoming roommates.

Think about the things you used to do for/with each other. Go on a date again. And make it a date, just like before. Primp and preen, pick the other person up at the assigned hour, go to dinner (maybe someplace new!), talk. Pretend you know nothing about each other. Take the time to get to know one another again.

All of this takes time, so don't expect immediate results if your relationship is already in a slump. Keep at it. The experts suggest couples pick a date night, and stick to it no matter what. Try to do something different each time. Above all, have fun!

Good luck!

Answer 2

I'd be content with what I had and not worry about being in love all the time. It's just an emotion that people put too much weight on. There are plenty of other emotions that are just as significant to existance but for some reason, Love is supposed to be the king of emotions. Get over it and live your life!

Answer 3

There's no such thing as a plan for love. All you can do is remember that love grows like a plant. You need to keep it watered. If you want it to grow, you've got to water it regularly. Even when you don't want to.

The biggest cause for divorce is probably couples who are both working and hardly see eachother. They come home tired and don't want to take care of their mate's needs. This applies to every aspect of the relationship. Sex, time together, listening, massages, etc.,.

Yeah, there's a lot of work, but the benefits are worth it!

Answer 4

Respect, trust, honesty.

1. Compliment her at least once a day (looks, how much you love her, the things she does for you

2. spend time together (don't run off to do your own thing all the time).

3. don't fight over petty stuff, if it's not that big a deal...let it go

4. sex...lots and lots of sex. (even when you're not in the mood...you'll get in the mood if you just start it up)

5. be experimental in bed (change is good)

6. ALWAYS put her first (if she does the same...you're both taken care of)

7. ALWAYS show affection

8. NEVER go to bed mad

Answer 5

Laugh together, play together, encourage her to try new things such as new hair color and compliment her when she does. never put her down in public. hold hands and when you kiss her make it a real kiss from time to time not the peck that most couples do and last you both should have something that you can enjoy by yourself so that you can appreciate and share new things with each other

Answer 6

keep doing what u did to get her in the first place, be spontaneous

Answer 7

You both have to work at it .......if you don't you lose it.

That's why married couples loose "it" and get bored.

Answer 8

Huh??

Answer 9

aways try

Answer 10

drugs lol