2006-07-28 08:10:03 · 15 answers · asked by Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm kind of embaressed about doing it for my husband but he hints that he would like me to do it for him...any pointers?
2006-07-28 08:10:40 · update #1
Oh yes girl. I did it for my man on his birthday 4 years ago, and the only thing he could say to me when I was done was, "Whoa, you're HOT!"
I started with planning the night a week in advance. I picked out certain music I wanted to dance to, and I practiced dancing them to the song while he wasn't there. I practiced everything in the mirror, I practiced what I would do during certain points or words in the songs. On the night of the dance, beforehand, I bought rose petals, candles, and white sheets. I laid the sheets over the carpet, and another over a recliner chair I set in front of the open floor. (for him) I got a single rose and laid it on his "thrown" and I bought a new lingerie outfit, shoes, thigh highs, I had my sister come earlier to do my make up. Girl, I went all out! When he came, I gave him a beer, sat him down and started the show. My first dance to him was by Envogue, "Givin' Him Somethin' He Can Feel" and it was a total success. He went nuts over me!
I couldn't believe his response! Then, I got a little more naughty and put the song, "Shake that monkey" and did the real dirty lap dance.
2006-07-28 08:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch some videos, I've seen some at video stores that carry adult titles. You could go to a gentleman's club and watch too, believe me you won't be the only woman in there. Go with some friends if you're worried about going alone. I think it's very cool of you to try, you sound like a great wife. Good luck!
2006-07-28 11:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer all adult adult males get became on with the aid of strip teases, yet yours seems to think of it can be a super activate. practice in front of a replicate first and dress and practice dancing/stripping the way you will in front of him. Then when you sense extra confident, choose for it.
2016-10-08 10:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are "training videos" you can get that teach you how to do it and show you the moves. Most likely, you're not comfortable because you're not really sure what to do, but once you learn more and practice on your own, you will gain the confidence you need. It will be a huge turn on for him, and you will be the first one to benefit! Go for it!
2006-07-28 08:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, comeing from a guy well lets see. Wait till it is unexpected. Put on something sexy! Have some simi slow music going. Do not let him touch you. and act like you are making love to him. standing up or laying on the floor. I think he will enjoy it.
2006-07-28 10:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to be embarassed, but my guess is he'll love it, even if you can't dance! LOL. Dress in sexy lingerie, and put on some makeup, fix your hair, and don't forget the stilletos. You'll be surprised how much confidence you gain from looking good.
2006-07-28 08:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by porcelina_68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are actually strip "classes" at certain health clubs and dance studios due to the increasing popularity of home-based burlesque.
You can even buy a dance "pole" at sex boutiques (if you're too shy to go in, make him do it). There are also instructional videos available http://www.centralhome.com/ballroomcountry/exotic_dance.htm
or http://www.stripology.com/
The coolest thing is that you care enough for your man to pick-up on his vibe and want to please him in this way.
He's a lucky guy!
2006-07-28 08:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carmen Electra made some Striptease DVDs-got good reviews,although,i never tried it myself.Google her...Good Luck!
2006-07-28 08:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tinnee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent "Striptease" with Demi Moore.
You can study that while you're alone and practice moves in a mirror. He'll love you for it :)
2006-07-28 08:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just slowly take off your shirt showing a little bit of skin than work your way down not to reveal any parts than show one breast at a time than your crotch. He will love it....Good Luck
2006-07-28 08:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋