i married in 2004 n have a baby in 2006 i m in trouble my husband never talk to my mom n sister on phone (they live in singapore) n v in ny , n when he comes home he never help me to handle wid baby even when i m eating , n v live in joint family , i do all the work in the home no 1 help me out i have 2 handle wid baby too, another thing is that no 1 like me in my in laws ,i have no respect in my sis in laws ,f in law , m in law, they never apreciate me , they alway try to humilate me n my husband cant a say a word as he dont have money to get seprate ,his all pay go to the bank n spend in our bills i badly have cash $20-50 in 2 weeks , my m in law alway hate me whatever i do she dont like even i cant bring my baby in my way , some times i think that i shud go back 2 my home but my father is dead n i have 2 sis n 1 6 year old bro n my mother do job ,i dont wanna to be burden on them
what shud i do plz help me i m in tourble
2006-07-28 08:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by NATASHA K 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i think you should go to your mom.. you can help her with the kids an she can help you too.. your better off with out him if he doesn't care about you and ain't helping you with anything.. i have a 3 mouth old baby boy.. an my husband does everything an can be a pain in the butt but he helps out alot..
2006-07-28 08:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY GO HOME! I am sure your mom and such would NOT see it as a burden you would and could help out. This baby deserves better and you do to. Or call the crisis line. I would say that you need to get out and fast. YOU AND YOUR CHILD DESERVE MORE. IT WILL ALL WORK OUT> goodluck to you and your child.
2006-07-28 15:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by embsmg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out. Talk to a lawyer. Get a job and hire a great babysitter. That is a bad situation to raise a child in.
2006-07-28 15:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by sam2sar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry 4 ur bad situation. I just don't know what 2 tell u. Here's a crisis #.
2006-07-28 15:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to have a long talk with your husband and his family. tell them how you feel. tell therm how they hurt you .
2006-07-28 15:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋