2006-07-28 08:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i know this is not a right thing but she must need to do it since she is getting married to a middle eastern man and they always expect their would be wife to be a virigin. pls help, thanks
2006-07-28 08:15:35 · update #1
I don't think you should decieve him about that, cuz it's wrong but that's my opinion and I can't change your decision. But if you really wanna know: just tell him you broke your hymen with a tampon, or while stretching and/or playing sports. It happens. The tampon would be the best bet to go since guys usually try their hardest to understand the tampon thing.
2006-07-28 08:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hurricane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not good to deceive him like that but...
tighten your vagina the whole time, act like it hurts, be a little loud,
If he knows enough though he can tell. When he gos down for a little tounge action, he may notice what is known as the hymen, This is the evidence of virginity. If broken your not a virgin >.> the hymen is why it hurts >.>
2006-07-28 15:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to marry someone that hung up on weither you are a virgin or not?? This is 2006 baby, wake up. If hes that screwed in the head he should just continue having sex with his cammel and leave you alone. Just my thoughts. Tim
2006-07-28 15:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by timslim1963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deceiving your husband about that is a bad start to a marriage. But,
Act like it hurts when you have sexual relations. And prick your finger with a tack and spill the drops of blood on the sheets before he can recover.
2006-07-28 15:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a way to act like a virgin, i am a virgin and me my bf who is a virgin... well we don't know how to act like one. we did talk about it though, and we both know what goes where, and i have tips on knowing how for it to go physically smooth for me. eventually we get good at it. But the best thing to do is relax and laugh.
This made my day.
2006-07-28 15:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by waterdragon88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, guys are dumb, just pretend to hurt, why men want virgins is beyond me, and why you would want to be with somebody that ONLY wants a virgin is beyond me too. I think they thinbk that if they have a virgin, that they can control them easier cause the woman is more naive and innocent, therefore controllable. Don't get played yourself
2006-07-28 15:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little super glue will do the trick! Probably hurts just the same and the screams of pain will sound authentic...did I just say all that?
2006-07-28 15:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Lonnie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Err, this is wrong but i read that you can have an operation to replace the skin that was originally broken when you first have sex, but its quite expensive, i think. You shud tell ur hubby tho
2006-07-28 15:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by xxx_beckie_bbe_xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get a small vial of pigs or goats blood and take it with her on there wedding night, also tell her to do kegel exercises , they make you tighter, hope this helps
2006-07-28 15:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by AFwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get vaginal reconstruction surgery, they put your hymen back in tact. Personally I would fess up, if he can't handle it, that's his problem.
2006-07-28 18:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by honk2goose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋