I can't leave as we have bought a house together. we don't sleep together anymore. I'm so lonely.
2006-07-28 07:53:42 · 21 answers · asked by pampurredpuss 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry to hear of your situation. If he really is gay, surely you can't continue to live together because if he is then both of you need to move on to other relationships which will be better matches for each of you. I know it's a hassle, but the house can be sold and you each go your own way. BUT before you do that, such a drastic step, you need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Get everything out in the open - your feelings, his feelings, why he is hiding it. Communicate and talk with him. Much good luck to you. I hope everything works out for the best.
2006-07-28 08:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Have you actually asked him though? He may be confused, but whatever, if your doubting then you must get out of this relationship - just because you have bought a house together is no reason to be in a relationship.
2006-07-28 18:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by electric/discotequer/robot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now! Or find another boyfriend and get him to move in with you. And then your boyfriend can get a man to move in as well. But dont stay and be lonely girl! I'm a gay guy and i can tell you get out now!
2006-07-28 14:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry girl leave him and get on with your life you deserve to be happy if you bought a house with him make arraignments but don't stayed there anymore you are hurting yourself.
2006-07-28 15:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by SunFlower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious. It may be that he is really not gay and you are just in denial that he has just lost interest in you. Having a house together does not mean you should stay with him. LEAVE!!!!!
2006-07-28 14:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by alter_egob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW many rooms? You could rent the room out and both of you move. Have the place as an investment instead ....no biggie, hey you may even make a profit later on
2006-07-28 15:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by intelligensio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you deserve better, pick yourself up and face him about your concerns. You'll know if he's lying, but you know, there are a lot of guys out there who are straight, but don't appear to be, and at the same time there are those who are gay and appear straight. Be strong, it's not the end of the world
2006-07-28 15:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both get along together why don't you just be housemates - he goes his way and you go yours. Make the house rules though as there could be conflict later.
2006-07-28 15:04:10 · answer #8 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell the house and get out while you still can.
dont be lonely get out there and enjoy yourself you only live once so stop wasting your time with a man that you obviously cant satisfy.
2006-07-28 15:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by only1amz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how did you find out he was gay? Was there any signs before you married the man? If he is gay be roomates and find someone else.
2006-07-28 15:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋