2006-07-28 07:53:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't be able to forgive him. I wouldn't be able to look at him the same way and feel the same way about him anymore. Once you're in a committed relationship, you trust and give yourself to this other person. Once the person commits that act of betrayal, it's really hard to go back to the way it used to be. Like they say, once a cheater, always a cheater. I wouldn't be able to forgive because I wouldn't be able to be with someone who can bring me so much pain.
2006-07-28 07:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. My husband cheated on me when we first got together. I know pretty stupid and I did leave him for a bit but we did get back together and I was only 16 and he was only 18 at that time. We have been together for 9 and 1/2 years now and he has only cheated on my that one time. If he ever did it again doesn't matter how long we have been together I would leave him. I think some ppl deserve a second chance. I think sometimes ppl do things when they are scared. Not that it is right but ppl do stupid things all the time and regret it doesn't mean they will do it again.
2006-07-28 15:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nichole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, i really love my husband and if he ever cheated on me, he knows that i will never forgive him but i can still live with him and make him feel the guilt of what he's put me through, and i would never speak to him again, sleep in the same bed with him, or even look at him again, and he'll feel so sorry that he'd wish he'd never did that to hurt me....It really hurts when someone you love so much could lie to you in your face and do that kind of thing to hurt you, when they know that all you do is stay home and watch the kids, and wait for them to come home from work, or from going out with the guys. I would ignor my husband forever, and i don't think i could ever love anyone because love just hurts.
2006-07-28 15:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving the spouse would be difficult but not impossible. It all depends how apologetic he/she is. There would definitely be a trust issue that would need to be discussed. I think you would have to gauge whether he has/will change, and that he has to be accepting of the fact that you won't trust him now for a long time. And that he would have to regain that trust back. Alot of men aren't willing to go throught that. Then you have your decision.
2006-07-28 15:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gilligan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never forgive a husband who cheats on u.
2006-07-28 15:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by kiran123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!! Once a Cheater ALWAYS a Cheater! The 1st time he cheats while w/ you=Shame on Him! The 2nd time he cheats & is still w/ you===SHAME ON YOU! You are worthy of more.
2006-07-28 15:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tinnee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!! Trust in a relationship is the most important thing. If you can't trust the person with whom you love then,who can you trust? To me,as a male,it's an unforgiving.
2006-07-28 15:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgave my wife for cheating, like many men do, So why not the first time?
2006-07-28 15:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive yes. Stay no.
2006-07-28 15:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by On the upside 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! In fact, I can't forgive him now because he is a perpetual liar!
2006-07-28 14:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋