Trust me i have tried everything. Flowers,cooking dinner,back rubs, cuddling on couch watching movies she just is never in the mood? We are both in our mid 30s. Is this normal for you ladies in your mid thirties is it just a faze please help..
2006-07-28 07:52:36 · 16 answers · asked by bruinsfan72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok more details i am a stay at home dad i do all the laundry cooking, mow the lawn fix the cars i do everything but have a job(well taking care of our 2 kids is a job)
2006-07-28 07:59:32 · update #1
PS mastrubateing gets boring
2006-07-28 08:02:31 · update #2
Masturbate masturbate masturbate
2006-07-28 07:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by sunnyday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband also wants "it" more than I do. All I can say is that most the time there is nothing wrong, I'm just simply "not in the mood" I love him very much and I find him incredibly sexy, and yes sometimes we have problems but not all the time. I don't know what it is. Sometimes I think that he will stray, but deep down I know he won't, I have been looking into maybe a female type of medication to amp up my libido. Maybe some peoples libidos are different than others. That's what I think. Maybe you could ask her to try some medical advice (if there's nothing else wrong of course.)
2006-07-28 08:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by rabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions. What do you do AFTER sex that could make her feel disinterested in the first place? Do you suddenly become unavailable to her after you've 'had' her? Does she feel used after sex? Do you just do these peripherial things like cooking dinner etc BECAUSE you want sex or you would do them BECAUSE you love your wife? There is a big difference in the two. If you genuinely care for her, it will show in your actions and believe me honey, once you start caring genuinely and be caring even after the act of making love, she will be ready to pounce on you the moment you both get a minute alone. Try this and I am sure it will work ;)
2006-07-28 08:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell I have the full tiem job, my wife doesn't work, we have no kids, we are both in our early thirties, and I couldn't get laid by my wife to save my life. When we dated I got it daily, now I'm lucky to get it once every three months. I don't get it either man. I mean I understand two people have different sex drives, but come on, it's getting ridiculous. I dont know. I've only been married 11 months, and have onlt have sex with my wife about 7 times.
2006-07-28 08:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is giving in only to fulfill her guy, than her guy isn't doing something precise. believe me... gals choose and choose intercourse. yet what occurs until now and after is the two significant to them. attempt giving her some straightforward foreplay and a few cuddle time in a while, and she or he'll beg you to be together with her returned. Yeah, it variety of feels that this women persons's rights issue has lengthy previous slightly too some distance. In a useful relationship, no person is "on top of issues" of something. it extremely is a partnership. i desire you will discover that with somebody. you do no longer ought to sense whipped. no longer all chicks are like that. do no longer take it.
2016-12-14 15:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO....you guys must be mastrubaeting when you're spelling it....goodness. "Masturbating" is cool for a while. All you can do at this point is talk to her. Tell her how important this is for you (hell, for any relationship). If she wants to deal with you having affairs, then she won't need to sleep with you. If she wants you to continue to be faithful, then she needs to provide intimacy for you.
Think about it, stay-at-home moms and housewives cheat just as much as if not more than men do. Women think about sex just as much as men do...she's thinking it, is she also doing it, just not with you? Who knows?
It's a filthy double standard. If the shoe were on the other foot, she would have already begun cheating on you. And, would justify it by saying "You were never there for me!!! Boo hoo!". State your peace, and hold your ground. If she still refuses, then you know what you have to do. You do one of three things: (1) cheat, (2) divorce, or (3) deal with it and be miserable, but faithful. It's your choice.
2006-07-28 08:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is comforable with you masturbating. Or get to the real reason she doesn't want to have sex.
More than likely, the reason she does not want to have sex is because you don't make her feel confident in your relationship. If she suspects that your urges are going to take you elsewhere - guess what, that is like pooring a bucket of icewater on her libido. She needs to KNOW that she is the only one, the future mother of your child, and all you ever want.
Or you can just go back to masturbating to porn. I hear that is pretty fulfilling.
2006-07-28 07:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be dealing with some issues unknown to you. Try talking to her and find out why her interest in sex has dwindled. Be patient with her otherwise she will withdraw even more and respect her if she's not in the mood. Get you some movies to hold you over until she is ready to give it up.
2006-07-28 07:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Shikibeeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you went from she doesn't want to have s*x every day to she doesn't EVER want to have s*x. If she doesn't want to have it every day, being in my 30s as well, I can understand, but if she NEVER wants to have s*x with you, my suspicions are that she is having it with someone else. It is not normal for a woman in her 30s to NEVER want s*x.
2006-07-28 07:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by julesl68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip her some viagra, i don't know If my man cooked me dinner I know I'd be appreciative.
2006-07-28 07:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by bopbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe--if you have children and/or she works long hours--she is too tired for sex.
Try doing more around the house.
2006-07-28 07:56:32 · answer #11 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋