I am 14 pretty, and skinny.?

Question

I have strawberryblonde hair and hazel eyes, but I can't get a boyfriend

Answer 1

Hang in there, you shouldn't have a problem, it's all just timing! Keep watching that figure! There are too many fat girls out there. Just look around. Too many girls think that 5'5"-130lbs or 5'3"-120lbs is thin and in-shape - it's not! 5'7"-120, 5'5"-115, 5'3"-110 is thin and in-shape! STAY ON COURSE.

Answer 2

A boyfriend at 14 should be the least of your worries. You should be focused on school, and your future, you are too young to be having boyfriends. At 14, I was number one in my class, had joined a swimming team, was learning another language and most importantly of all had a great best friend who guided me through all the success stories I have now, my mother. At the age of 14 I was helping my grandma around the house, I was just basicly trying to be "productive" to society, I was also planning my 15 year old party and believe it or not, I was still playing with dolls, of course those were other days and Thanks to all that I am a successful person now, married with a great man and expecting our first baby after 6.5 years of being married, and at the age of 29 I don't think there is anything I would change in my life. You are still young, start building your future, no body cares if you are pretty, skinny and have hazel eyes, the only ones that care are child molesters! and by you posting things like this you are promoting yourself. You can be killed!! so I suggest you to go to the library, read a book and get smarter!!

Answer 3

14 hmm? Maybe you're too young to have a boyfriend. Or maybe you're trying to hard. Or maybe you're basing solely on looks and not enough on the person. I never had a serious boyfriend until I was 17 and it wasn't because I'm not pretty. It was because I was reserved and all the boys looked at me as one of the guys, since I had mostly guy friends. I moved 300 miles away from hom, grew some balls, and when I came back home I had men crawling all over me because now I don't give a s*** about what people think of me and I fix myself up. I have a great boyfriend and a lot of friends. Don't rush it, just let it happen. Besides, men have great qualities, but you have to find one with them first and a lot of guys are d***heads. Pay attention to the brains and person and not just on the looks. Looks can be very deceiving.

Answer 4

You are too young for one. Wait until you finish high school, then go boy hunting.
P.S. Not all guys like skinny or strawberryblonde hair or hazel eyes and being pretty is subjective
Some guys like personalities...go find one!

Answer 5

I normally wouldn't answer here, but I see some of the bad comments that may hurt your feelings more than help. Surfacy comments, some treat you like a kid. Some don't expalin what they mean.

You sound cute enough. So I think it does have something to do with your personality. But by no means is that a bad thing, nor does it matter. I think you are too busy for one now anyway. hopefully you are also concentrating on school work. You have chosen some priorities and there is lots of time for boys later. And it sounds like you will be continue to grow as a knockout for the next 5 to 10 years.

So, your personality. You are an athletic girl. You are busy in 2 sports. Too busy to meet boys. The thing about that too, is you are busy at things that keep you around girls a lot. Like teammates.

Then you are a Jock type. There are lots of guys that like your type, you just aren't finding them. Maybe they are there and you aren't noticing them. The average male jock might see you as a threat. They are probably trying to date cheerleaders and would rather there wasn't women's sports. At best they might let you hang out as one of the boys. Then lots of guys may want to be with you but think you are out of their league. During your sporting events, look for the quiet ones that always show up, and seem to cheer you on. Make an effort to say hi to them sometime.

The other thing is it is now summer. Your life is changing. It is a better time to change your day to day habits where you might find someone. Keep looking for work, and that could change up the type of people you meet.

So there I go, giving you all kinds of advice. Therefore I will sum up. You have set priorities. School and sports and work. Those are great. You seem to be reassessing them to put finding a bf higher on that list. This may come at a cost. Do you want to cut back on some of your priorities? I think your current ones are fine.

Answer 6

maybe you should wait to get a boyfriend and let them come to you. after all you're only 14! you're not 20 or something! :) don't worry about it. you have plenty of time to get one. right now, just enjoy your youth and the single life while you still can! one day you might look back and think "why did i waste time on a bf when i was so young?". You could also regret it. I'm 16 and enjoying the single life. really i am. A quote i like from the movie The Hot Chick is: You are all you need" meaning you don't need a guy to have fun and be happy. You can enjoy yourself even tho you're single!

Answer 7

At 14 years old you really should not be worried about all this kind of stuff. You are probably a beautiful person and sometimes this makes boys a little unconfident about them selves. But it will all get better with time don't rush your life stay young as long as you can because after it's gone it's gone.

Answer 8

Aww Im 14 and skinny too. But I dont have that problem Dudes like how I act so that mite b y. But I do see where you're coming from cause Im like the skinniest girl at my school and dudes prefer big butts and big **** and Im flat as a board lol

Answer 9

I'm 14 to and slender. Don't worry, I haven't got a b/f yet. And don't need one until I'm allowed to marry! Why bother? I'm a Christian and what I want tor a guy is:
A cute, sweet, 100% Christian, loves me for who I am guy.

Wait and see. God has someone very special out there for you. God's just waiting for a good time to send him too you.
Hope this helps! BTW, save your heart for one man. If you have bedroom times with one man and marry another, you're going to have a difficult time loving your husband without thinking back and having your times with your sexy b/f haunt you in the bedroom with your husband.
That is what my mom says and I agree with her ALL THE WAY!

Answer 10

You are 14, have fun. Don't worry about a boy, you have plenty of time for that. Then you will wish you never had a boyfriend!! For real!!!

Answer 11

Don't rush getting a boyfriend. You will soon enough. Sometimes, guys that age can be slow to notice true beauty in girls. Be yourself, and don't TRY to make boys like you