what do you do when you love someone very much and they tell you they love you, but you think they are interested in some one else what do you do?
2006-07-28 07:50:54 · 30 answers · asked by Honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
talk with them, bring it up and discuss how you feel. Jealousy sucks, but the only way to get over it, is to let him know how uneasy you feel when he's out with a certain girl, and hopefully he tonnes it down. Jealousy can eat at you...don't let that happen. Communicate!
2006-07-28 07:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love someone very much when you think they are interested in someone else?? You should have asked yourself this question before you developed a strong love for a person like that. Solve your problem of inconsistent thoughts before you think of entering any relationship. Know what you want and then start loving.
2006-07-28 07:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. Unfortunately, you have no other choice but to believe that person until you have proof that they actually like that other person. You could always ask (not accuse) him if he likes that other person. If he says no, believe him. if you have suspicions, tell him your reasons and let him explain. You might be surprised that you're worry over nothing. I did this to myself for the longest time. But if he says he loves you, and he's staying with you, then there is a reason for it. He just might be telling the truth. Besides, worrying about something will not prevent it from happening. You'll just make yourself unhappy and sick with worry until it really does happen. (not saying that it will) Just relax and talk to him about it, and then after that leave it or him alone, depending on the results of the conversation.
2006-07-28 08:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love between you two is true blue, then open communication should solve your problem. Tell him the truth; you are feeling insecure that he may be interested in someone else. If the answers he gives you does not solve your insecurity problem, then you should step back and re-evaluate your relationship.
2006-07-28 08:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by tramps3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time our insecurities are real, but other time they are wrong. You can't except the fact that someone my love you because you don't love you. Stop and begin loving you and then reach out to love someone else.
2006-07-28 07:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Life is to short to be waiting for someone that wants someone else. You cant have your milk and drink it too. Let him go and tell him when he is ready, then you might try and find time for him . But as of now you are moving on and you are gonna let him do his thing with no love loss. Tell him you might and might not be there when he is ready, but thanks for the honesty!
2006-07-28 07:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you think they like someone else, ask them about it. If they dont give you a straight answer, then take a step back and let them figure out what they want.
2006-07-28 07:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask specific answers and get more specific questions.... This site is great in aiding one to work through their issues, but without specifics no one can give specific answers.
What would I do? I would talk to him and tell him of my concerns. I would talk untill it was resolved, no matter how long it took. Best wishes
2006-07-28 07:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a relationship with this person already or are you already dating & you both have expressed your love for each other?
whichever circumstance it is i suggest you find out 100% for sure if it is true, follow your first instincts. you don' want to get deeper into him and find out it was true all along. spare your self the pain (if it is true) and find out NOW!!!!!!
2006-07-28 07:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be as emotional when there poss not on the same page. Relax, why not give him the same impression. A little childish but it may make you fel better.;)
2006-07-28 07:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋