Me and my girlfriend are 16 and are trying to have a baby. We have tried a few times but she just got on her period again so that means she isn't pregnant yet, right? How can we make it easier to get her pregnant?
2006-07-28 07:50:31 · 26 answers · asked by b_retta295 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Why are you trying to have a baby? You working full time? You planning on your folks to help? or what? Or the state? Who is going to pay the medical bills? do you have insurance? Who is going to babysit for you during your graduation ceremony? or are you not in school anymore? Am I going to be paying for you? Are my tax dollars going to support you?
2006-07-29 11:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie45414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first what the hell are you thinking and ,...what the hell are you thinking!
I'm 31 and have kids and a good job and it's even hard now!!!
My girlfriend just had a baby and she is 28 and she is married and she is stressed to death!!!!
You are by far the most ignorant person thinking that you need baby especially if you don't even know how to make one?!
Yea have the baby unwed and then live off the states money let us who do things the right way raise your child who will be unfortunate raises by min wadge parents and have a poor upraising because you made hi/her at such a young age!
Don't be stupid and go to a clinic ans truly ask the other people how living with a young baby is so difficult and at that ask the new grandparents and see how it had affected their lives being there more than likely helping "not by choice" raise the child!
2006-07-28 08:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by vcaring 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt even be worried about getting pregnant you and your girlfriend are justed kids yourself and when you bring a little child in this world you are the ones who have to be responsable for them and beig the age you are right now would not be good wait a few more years so you two and grow up and have a life
2006-07-28 08:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Josh & Amber D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to get pregnant?
many young teens say they try to get pregnant because they want someone who loves them, they come from unloving homes and, of course, long for love. thing is, a baby is all take for more than a year, if you do it right! before you can give adequately to your child, you must give adequate attention to your own development.
the needs of an infant are so demanding, most adults are not up to it. you are supposed to spend the next ten years discovering your interests and talents and developing them.
i'd recommend you stop having sex altogether, as it bonds you to someone chemically whom, believe it or not, you may not wish to have around in a year. and the biological bond that comes from making a child together, good lord....
at 16, you can damn well do better things with your time than have sex with your girlfriend. like, i don't know, talking to her. climbing a mountain, reading a book.
2006-07-28 07:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the best interest to wait and have your kids after you graduate high school and get a college education. I am not sure you two know what you are really trying to get yourself into. Children cost more money than what you will ever spend on anything. Including a house. WAIT! It will be alot easier if you are financially prepared to have a baby. Diapers alone will cost 1200.00$ for one year. WAIT!
2006-07-28 07:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have a baby now. You both are 16 and got your whole lives ahead of you tow. You need to experience life first. Finish high school and go to college and make something of your selves first. Babies are a lot of work and cannot do for them selves. Think this through first.
2006-07-29 01:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you out of your mind???? children do not need to have children. when you grow up which you obviously have not yet or you would not be even thinking of such a selfish stupid idea then you can have kids. y dont you think about the life you would be giving a kid at your age -it wouldnt be much of one -there is no need to rush into being a grown up you will be one soon enough and it would be too hard on not only you two but definately the poor innocent baby
2006-07-28 07:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by nunya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The lady friend is enjoying high recreation and your son has raging harmones. You have to set some floor principles. 1. She must not be allowed in his bed room. 2. She can only be there if a parent is residence and limit her visits to weekends week for three hours max. (I do get the sensation he will try and do her at any place.) you are in control of the challenge, consistent supervision and vigilance is the important thing!. Tell him, if he's historical sufficient to have intercourse, he is old sufficient to get his possess job, location and put her in it, and furnish for her. Intercourse isn't free." Your husband wishes to have a talk with him that with intercourse comes accountability and consequences.
2016-08-09 05:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a good paying job?
Your own place?
Are you paying your own bills?
Do you have at least $1000 in a savings account?
Has she been taking prenatal vitamins?
Have you both been clean from drugs and alcohol for 6+ months?
Is she in good physical condition?
Are YOU in good physical condition?
Have you stopped partying?
Are you ready to not party for a long time?
Are you ready to hold her hair back while she throws up from morning sickness?
Is she ready to have stretch marks?
Are you prepared for her to have to go on bedrest if something goes wrong?
Do you have health insurance?
Does SHE have health insurance?
Are you prepared for what you'll do if the baby comes prematurely and has to be in the NICU?
Do you know how to change diapers?
Do you know how to make formula?
Are you ready to wake up at 2am, 4am and 6am to feed the baby?
Do you have money to buy clothes, diapers, wipes, furniture and other baby gear?
Has she been seeing on OB/GYN for pap smears and other tests?
Is she eating right and getting moderate exercise?
Do you know what to do if the baby is colicy?
Do you know what to do when the baby is teething?
Do you know how old a baby should be before giving it cereal? What about juice? How about other solids?
If you answered NO to any of those questions, stop having sex, go buy a box of condoms, get her on birth control and GROW UP. People that are unprepared are what gives teen parents the horrible name that they have.
2006-07-28 08:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The female buddy is enjoying top interest and your son has raging harmones. you are able to desire to set some floor rules. a million. She should not be allowed in his mattress room. 2. she would be in a position of purely be there if a parent is residing house and shrink her visits to weekends week for 3 hours max. (I do get the sensation he will attempt and do her everywhere.) you're on top of issues of the region, consistent supervision and vigilance is the foremost!. tell him, if he's old sufficient to have intercourse, he's old sufficient to get his own interest, place and placed her in it, and grant for her. intercourse isn't loose." Your husband needs to have a communique with him that with intercourse comes duty and effects.
2016-10-08 10:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋