I never can talk to my mum about the things that mother and daughter should talk about, it seems that............. i don't even know what it seems and feels like anymore Whats wrong with me?
2006-07-28 07:48:08 · 19 answers · asked by Angel From The Hell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it has always been this way(i m not saying that she is not good). I trusted my father much more but You cant talk to them about EVERYTHING. No, NO WAY!!1
2006-07-28 08:03:58 · update #1
Has your mother done anything to violate your trust? If so, work with her to repair that violation.
You're at the age where you're ready to understand that your mom is an imperfect individual, just like everyone else. That means she might do things that break your trust sometimes. You'll need to view your relationship with her through the scope of reality, not just some vague ideal.
2006-07-28 07:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you or your mother. You both broke the lines of communication somewhere. The best advise i can give is try to sit down with your mom and let her know how you feel. Be whole hearted and honest as well as open minded and see what happens.
2006-07-28 07:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing ur just at the age where u r not sure what she will think or if she will just yell and ground u, so talk to her like ur an adult n have her agree to a "free zone talk agreement" that is where u can tell her things without gettin into trouble or having any reporcusions.
2006-07-28 07:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING is wrong with you! I don't trust my mom AT ALL. Not with my car at least or anything with value. My mother used to be a drug addict so I have good reason.
Talk to your mother about how you feel.
2006-07-28 07:52:04 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's compleatly normal,nothing is wrong. I feel the same way sometimes it's hard because of the obvious age difference talking to parents can get really awkward.
2006-07-28 07:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by puppygirl1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to tell. Could be just normal teenaged rebellion, might be a result of marijuana use, or she might have problems of her own that make it hard for her to communicate. Try suggesting family councilling to find out what's up. You'll ALL be happier for it.
2006-07-28 07:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to be telling your mother that. Don't point fingers, don't make accusations - just tell her what you just said, and tell her why you feel that way. Chances are, she doesn't even realize it herself.
2006-07-28 07:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you always been this way? my guess probably not. you are just at that age. I am going through the same phase, but i am sure that we will all get through it. maybe your subconsious is just telling you that you don't want everyone knowing ur business.
2006-07-28 08:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by princess_anne_2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is snooping around your room . . kissing your boy friends . . I am sure there is a reason. Always be on the lookout with her . . you cannot trust her.
2006-07-28 07:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it...
I'm the same.... I hate even seeing my mother, but I can talk about anything to my dad....
2006-07-28 08:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋