i need help i my girl is pregnant?

Question

ok i am 15 and a father of a 1 year old and my daughter christiana is so sweet and i am engaded to be engaded to her mom april. me april and christina live at my parents house and me and april had sex like a week before her period and she was due to get her period yesterday and still hasent gotten it. she took a pregnancy test and it came out positive , the line on it was very dark. my questions are since the line was so dark could it be mulitiples ? my other question is how should we tell my parents and what should we do with the baby?

the only reason i am asking if it is mulitiples is because i read some where that if the line is dark there is a higher chance of mulitiples

i have a JOB that pays good and she has birth control but she says she forgott to take it. also we are saving as much money as possible to get our own house or at least an appartment. our other child was and is not a mistake. also we are PROLIFE so no abortions will be done to our children

April lives at my house because he parent basicly gave up all rights to her when they found out about christina

she is pregnant

Answer 1

The darkness of the line has nothing to do with how many babies she will have.

You're a kid! With a kid! How stupid can you be?! What are you're parents doing letting their son and his baby's momma have sex in their house?! Are they stupid?! Really, guy, get a grip. Don't be an idiot! If she's pregnant, have the kid, but STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX!!! You're 15!!!!

Answer 2

Okay, firstly.... I'm sure you're tired of hearing this but ...you really shouldn't of been having sex at age 14. I think sex should wait until you are at least sixteen or older because of th fact that you would be more mature and you will be able to think it through with the consequences in mind. Secondly... you should be VERY grateful that your parents are supportive and are allowing you two and your daughter to live with them. It's good to have parents that are willing to help you out. I saw on one of your answers that " one kid is an accident,", I think that you guys should have used a condom or some kind of birth control because a baby, I'm sure, did make you guys rearrange you life a little to aquire a child. I'm not the type of person to judge someone without knowing them but that doesn't mean everyone is as open minded as I am. Your daughter might give you guys a reputation. The only way that you could maybe defeat that is to be the very best parents you can. Now.... about the fact that your girlfriend may be pregnant AGAIN. Ya'll really shouldn't have been still having sex any way. At least until ya'll were old enough to have your own home/apartment and steady jobs just in case she got pregnant again. I don't think you guys should get the baby aborted. I think you should go ahead and break it to your parents, and have the baby, instead of keeping it...put it up for adoption. One is probably hard enough, but two is too much. Especially since your daughter is still so young and needy. Plus, can you guys even get engaged? I thought you had to be 17 or something. But it's good you want to marry her. But don't marry her because of Christina. Marry her because u want to. That's the best advice I can give because I'm oonly 16, but good luck.

Answer 3

First of all ignore some of the dumb comments taht people made. You two need to wait for a couple of days to see if her period comes on and then if it doesn't go to the clinic and have a dr. do the test. you need to tell your parents wheter it is now or once confirmed that she is. I don't think that the line being really dark is an indicator of anything. Second, you guys need to agree to stop have unprotected sex. Also, come up with a plan, you both need to finish school so that you will be able to educate Christina (beautiful name). At least I can tell that you have a little bit of maturity because you are prolife. That is the best idea i have for you. It seems as if your parents will be supportive since they are allowing her to live there in the house. Don't be afraid to talk to them. Hope things work out for all of you. Keep me updated.

Answer 4

The darkness of the line on the test does not mean anything but she is pregnant. I say don't let her get a abortion it's plenty of people in the world who is looking for a beautiful new baby to call their own so I say have the baby and give it up for adoption if you all can't handle another. But after this baby is born make her get on birth control or you really should use a condom just to be safe. I think that you need to sit your parents down as soon as possible to let them know the news. Because you are really going to need their help with this.But good luck!

Answer 5

Wow! I don't think the color of the test would indicate multiples.
You'd have to have a doctor check for heart beats and take an
ultrasound.

You've got your work cut out for you. If she isn't pregnant, get her
immediately on birth control!! No ifs, ands, or buts! If she took the test, read the directions and followed them to a T- she's probably pregnant. However, if you take the reading in 40 min.
instead of 5 (or whatever) it could come out a false positive. That's what happened to me.

She is only late one day. Give it a little more time. If she is pregnant, you've got your work cut out for you. Education is the only way to support your family in the long run. Strive to complete college- even if it takes you twice as long and get scholarships because you're a parent. Do it to better your life.

If she is pregnant- have her get an IUD which will assure she
won't have kids for 10 years or so. Good luck to you all.

Answer 6

You should not beat around the bush with your parents. You should just sit down and tell them. If you've already fathered one baby, you should be mature enough to take responsibility again. All four of you (and April's parents, too)need to figure out what is best for the new baby. Don't rely on strangers to give you an answer to such a personal question concerning your new baby's future. With regard to the line being dark, a pregnancy test will not indicate multiples.

Answer 7

Wow, there are a lot of mean people here who obvisouly can't read too well.

1st) How dark the line is, depends on how much of a specific hormone she is carrying, it happens to fluctuate throughout the day so you can't determine multiple children based on an over the counter pregnancy test.

2nd) You need to talk to an actual doctor to make sure she is indeed pregnant, you can get false positives with over the counter tests

3rd)if you are prolife there is always adoption, you need to talk to your parents or your clergy or teacher or boss, whomever you trust, and discuss the situation.

4th) To talk to your parents, stand up be a man!! If you are old enough to be having sex and have a job then you need to handle your responsiblites. I guess I would say work longer at work, stop living with your parents, take classes, as a man you need to be responsible for birth control as well,

Answer 8

man, 15 is so young to be a parent of one, let alone two kids. You need to tell your parents, definitely, I mean they will know at some point right? Have you heard of birth control, or self control?
You could consider adopting out the baby, there are lots of people out there that would do anything to be a parent, you could even keep in touch over the years, have like an uncle and aunt relationship if the adoptive family agrees. Good luck

Answer 9

You are just 15 years old...a kid. Not a grown man. Did you not learn from your first baby not to have anymore babies till you get out of high school, go to college, get a good job and get married? Apparently not and your parents are so wrong to allow you two to sleep together then this other baby would not be in the picture.

Also just because you get a dark line on a test does not mean more than one baby...that right there tells the world you need to get educated on the human body and sex.

If you were my kid I would have to kick you out of my house because that is disrespecting your parents (unless they do not care).

You kids these days just think playing grown up is easy.

Answer 10

First of all if you should learn to wrap it up or expel the nastiness somewhere else so you know for sure she wont get pregnant, keep the baby, just because this was an accident doesn't mean that the baby should have to be aborted or anything like that. Your parents, if they love you they should be able to understand your situation. Don't be a coward and go the easy way out take care what is yours and your lady.

Answer 11

Get married, have and keep the child, grow up over night. After you do all of that, be a responsible parent and treat all of your children like they weren't mistakes and you wanted them. You need to take responsibility for you actions. If you look at them as mistakes you will most likely end up regretting them in the future and they will know that no matter how hard you try to hide it. They will be your life now so make the best of it. If you run from your poor choices you are a loser plain and simple. It's time for you to become a man.