my friends boyfriend keeps his email password from her. it changes atomacticly every so often between 5 different passwords. She knows three of them but not he others. Should she trust hm. This guy has tried to cheat by the internet before.
2006-07-28 07:31:26 · 25 answers · asked by pinkgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is obviously hidding somethign that he dosent want her to see otherwise he wouldnt care.. u cannot trust him
2006-07-28 07:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by hottstuffad1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Should she trust him?"
Simply, she does not trust him already. If she is aware of "This guy has tried to cheat by the internet before", then the trust has been broken in the past... it will NEVER be regained 100%. Tell your friend to look at the bigger picture... this relationship is already doomed!!!
I personally believe that everyone needs their privacy. Some couples may agree to exchange passwords and are cool with it. On the other hand, some may not want to give their partner that "right". Communication is the key when it comes down to this situation.
Another thing that I remind myself of, as well as others is that WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS. A lot of people tend to forget that when entering a relationship. Remember the person you are with was attracted to you in the beginning, because of YOU and who you are and vice versa. I think it's nuts that after engaging in a relationship, some people think they have to literally become one with their partner. When that happens, many have expectations that are too high and leads to disappointment (trust issues).
2006-07-28 08:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by charwants2know 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are really 2 different questions:
1] Should a girlfriend have her boyfriend's password?
No, of course not. You should never read someone else's mail.
2] Should your girlfriend trust a man she knows cheats?
No, of course not. If he cheats, he cheats and he doesn't need the internet to do that and knowing his password won't stop it.
Your friends would only need to have his email password to PROVE he's cheating. Proving it isn't going to make the situation better. LEAVING him is what is going to make it better. Proof is for court rooms - you don't need it to get on with your life.
2006-07-28 07:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, she shouldn't trust him. He is making new passwords and new user ID's so that he can give her the old ones, while he is making new ones to use behind her back. Well, I can't say that he is cheating or anything, but somthing isn't right here. I have been through this a couple of times. You and your friend need to figure out a way to bust him trying to talk to other woman online. That way, it is in your face, and he can't lie about it. Solid proof!
2006-07-28 07:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm,
If she is constantly trying to figure out his password, can he trust the GIRLFRIEND?
He might be changing his password all the time because he doesn't want to become a victim of identity theft or what not.
Your friend is too nosey, she should get her own email password.
2006-07-28 08:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Serious Business 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well his passwords is irrelevant to the situation. A very close couple who are engaged still dont know their passwords. It's a very private matter.
What's important is that he apparently has tried to cheat on the past. He may have damning evidence on his account but that is irrelevant to the password issue.
2006-07-28 07:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Brian D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? Your password is your business and so is his. if you feel the need to check his emails, you have deep trust issues and that does not give you the right to check his mail, scan his phone, look in his wallet or any other violation of respect for privacy.
2006-07-28 07:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend and I had each other myspace passwords for a while. We felt that checking each others messages created more stress and trust issues. If you trust him, you are better off not knowing his password because if you did have it you would check everyday looking for clues.
2006-07-28 07:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by 2glock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to give up his password to be trustworthy. She ought to be looking at other ways to decide if he's trustworthy or not, rather then be invading his privacy. (Does she go snoopping in his room too for porn and love letters from froeign countries?)
she's not married to the guy! If she doesn't feel she can trust him, then she needs to leave. Love is about trust and respect.
2006-07-28 07:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by myshira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesnt trust him she should leave. Obviously if she is checking up on him she doesnt trust him. Why be with someone who wants to be with other people? I would never ask my boyfriend for his password. I trust him. If I didnt then he wouldnt be my boyfriend. Simple.
2006-07-28 07:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason that your friend should have the password kept from her. She needs to give him an ultimatum if he doesn't give it to her then something is up! I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him...
2006-07-28 07:34:37 · answer #11 · answered by lindsaytejeda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋