My husband and I were seperated for 5 months this year. During this time I remodeled my home and spent ALL of my time alone trying to over come my anger at my husband fo rmany things that had happened over the years. One sunday my husband showed up at my house all pissed off and angry at me...why?? I still don't know, turns out he had spent the night at the beach w/ some (girl) friends of his, which he lied about a tthe time. We have been back together for 2 months and he swears he did not have sex with any of those girls. Today I found a condom in his glove box....he says he doesn't know how it got there (it matches the ones I found in the house). So do you think he is telling me the truth or he's lying (I don't know what to think I am so upset)???
2006-07-28 07:25:07 · 19 answers · asked by cautionim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Please note: we were seperated NOT divorced
2006-07-28 07:39:28 · update #1
Nothing to worry about. He probably keeps condoms just in case he has the need for an expensive balloon. Or perhaps he occasionally worrys that his gear shift is too germy, so he covers it with condoms. You already know the answer- so end the marriage.
2006-07-29 08:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably did have sex with one of those girls, but you guys were separated so it's not liek it was a big shock that he would have sex. He probably didn't want to tell you becasue he didn't want to hurt your feelings, since all that you did was stay home alone. Just let it go. you can't worry about what he did while you were separated. The important thing is that you two are back together and working on your issues. Worry about the future instead of the past.
2006-07-28 14:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have left them from the seperation but usually when they have betrayed you once they will do it again. Get counseling or at the least talk like you use to and get your marriage back on track.
Here is a starter and it is free and online.
good luck!
2006-07-28 14:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will do whatever they can get away with. It doesnt sound like your relationship is very stable. He is doing whatever he wants to make himself happy. Just living in the nice house you fixed up?? Dump him and move on.
2006-07-28 14:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by laugh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he bought the condoms or else they grew feet and walked into your house and into his glove box.
2006-07-28 14:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so clear that he is lying,just get him to confess or take a further step..........dont ruin your life by making it miserable for someone you is not honest in a realtionship!!
and just look at it,u dont trust him,theres no trust in you guys and when thers no trust you need to recheck cos your foundation is shaking!!
2006-07-28 14:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by countrygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Innocent until proven guilty!!
2006-07-28 14:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were seperated, drop it.....he probably doesn't like the color that you painted the foyer either....but he's living with it
2006-07-28 14:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey your husband be creeping, If you want your husband back you need to put your foot down , and you and him need to go to counseling together , but if you don't want him back kick his creeping *** to the curb say good bye , and that it ,,,,,,, good luck.
2006-07-28 14:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on u ,i mean u found two condoms that shoud tell u something
2006-07-28 14:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋