i never missed my period but is there a chance i can get pregnant?

Question

but my boyfriend said he never ejaculated and i dont know im so frustrated i dont even know if we had sex im so scared im only 16 and ive prayed and told God to have mercy of me and i dont know what to do my mom knows but im so scared at night i cant even sleep just thinking about it!!! my boyfriend tells me that we never did nothing but i dont know !!!! im only 16 i dont know why i cant remember anything i dont want to remember!!!1 sometimes i say that i rather kill myself but i know that God gets offended with those things i say !!!! im so scared to take a test ....... i dont want to ........ im so scared!!!

Answer 1

More than likely you are not pregnant. Just learn a lesson for this and next time be more prepared and careful with the proper safety in mind...birth control method.....but there is no way to know for sure than either buy a over the counter birth control test....they all do about the same or go to a free confidential clinic and have them test you for free.....but you are probably fine but the only way to not worry about it is to know for sure either way...well be careful next time and in the moment think back to this and remember all the heart ache it gave you and be more careful.

Answer 2

did you miss your period? I don't think there is anything you can do other than take a test, don't be scared you may not be pregnant and there you are worried sick you poor girl. Go somewhere that no body knows you and buy a test, there are tests that can be taken at any time of the day so you can take the test in a public loo somewhere. I lost my virginity at 16 and worried so many times that I may be pregnant, I never was. So please go and do a test, then you can get on with your life, whatever path it takes you. And remember being pregnant is not the end of the world, believe me. There are much worse things you could be doing. I am now a parent and if one of my kids got pregnant I would probably go crazy at first but I would be more upset if one of them went on drugs, or had a terminal illness. I hope you are OK and everything works out for you I will pray that your OK.

Answer 3

There's always a chance of getting pregnant when you're sexually active. At this point I'm glad to know that you've got the right mindset and have prayed to God about this situation. I trust that he will show you grace and mercy no matter what the outcome may be. God is in control right now and since you've gone to him for yourself in prayer, I know that he sees your heart. Please be encouraged and know that everything, every experience, good or bad, happens for a reason. Don't let anything, anyone, or any situation lead you to feeling the need to take your own life.

Take the test and have faith that no matter how this turns out, God is in control and he will take care of you. Everyone goes through difficult times in life and as you grow and get older, know that there will be obstacles. This won't be your last scare in life but it is a learning experience for the future. Learn from all of your fearful moments in life. They will take you further than you could ever imagine. I'm 32 years old with 3 young children, and I'm in the middle of a divorce. I find strength in knowing that God is in control and he has supplied all of our needs. Just hang on to knowing that "the Will of God will never take you to where the Grace of God will not protect you."

Be blessed and I will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 4

Okay, calm down. Seriously! At your age and with the current condition of your hormones, you could make yourself skip a period simply out of stress.

Secondly, are you saying you've never missed one until now, or you haven't missed one yet?

Either way, if you can't tell that you've had sex, you should probably take a class or something. Seriously! Watch the Health Channel - or Cinemax After Dark.

You can ask a friend to buy you a pregnancy test, but keep in mind, your friend will tell all your other friends that you had to take a pregnancy test. At least one of your friends will tell her mother and that lady will tell your mother. Do you want to risk your mom finding out that way?

NO! NO YOU DON'T! THAT WOULD BE BAD!

Talk to your mother. It won't be as bad as worrying about it for the next 6 months.

And whatever you were doing with your boyfriend...stop it!

Answer 5

Go by a pregnancy test to help ease your mind

If it's negative, things are ok then I would not have sex!! Thats the only way you can not get pregnant. If you do there is always a chance you can get pregnant with forms of birth controll. I mean no disrespect, but by reaing your question you are in no means ready (mentally) to have children, just wait, if your boyfriend cant deal with that you don't need him, chances are if you give in and get pregnant he won't be arround anyway. As for he did not ejaculate that is probably a load of bs too

Answer 6

YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN... TRY NOT TO STRESS YOURSELF OVER SOMETHiNG THAT MiGHT NOT EVEN BE TRUE. TRY NOT TO ALWAYS TAKE YOUR PREGNANCY PROBLEM TO YOUR BOYFRiEND AS WELL... CAUSE iT JUST MAKES THE iSSUE MORE OFF THAN iT MiGHT SEEM TO YOU ALREADY. SOMETiMES WHEN YOU OVER STRESS YOURSELF, YOU CAN MiSS YOUR PERiOD. AS FOR ME..THAT HAS HAPPENED, AND BELiEVE ME i PRETTY MUCH THOUGHT ABOUT THE SAME THiNG YOU JUST MENTiONED TO GOD. BUT YEAH iM NOT PREGNANT, NOR A MOTHER YET. SO CALM DOWN, THE ONLY BEST THiNG FOR YOU TO DO iS CALM DOWN AND STOP STRESSiNG. DONT EVEN BE SCARED TO TAKE A TEST. iF YOUR SCARED RiGHT NOW, THEN TAKE ONE. iT MiGHT DO YOU GOOD. iF NOTHiNG THAT DAY HAPPENED THEN iM SURE NOTHiNG DiD. STOP CONFUSiNG YOURSELF. TAKE CARE..THiNK POSiTiVE. BE SAFE..AND REMEMBER iF YOU CANT HANDLE THiS THEN GO WiTH SEX PROTECTED OR DONT GET YOURSELF iNTO THiS iSSUE UNTiL YOU REALLY ARE READY

Answer 7

Your boyfriend is mistaken. If there was penetration, it is possible to get pregnant without ejaculation, as the lubricating fluid also contains sperm. If you HAVE missed a period, you should definitely get a pregnancy test. If you did NOT miss a period, and you are not on hormones or birth control pills, you are in all likelihood not pregnant. Hormones and birth control pills can cause break through bleeding even if pregnant.

Answer 8

if you never missed your period and you and your boyfriend never had but you are scared to take a test and say you can't remember anything then the real problem could be that you cheated on him and you never told him, but now all this is happening and you are scared he's about to fing out. That's what it sounds like to me. But good luck anyway, that's just my opinion....

Answer 9

First of all....CALM DOWN! Things will work out. If you had your period, chances are that you're not pregnant. However, implantation bleeding can sometimes (rarely, but sometimes) be mistaken as a period. The best way to find out is to buy a test (try EPT). I know this can be stressful, but if you stress yourself out too much, then it will only get worse.

Answer 10

I as so sick of all you dumb teenagers being all scared and crying to everyone that you might be pregnant!!! WHY WERE YOU MESSING AROUND WITHOUT PROTECTION!!!! I know you can't say you didn't know becuase the information is out there everywhere! You dumb little *****, you should have thought about it before you messed around!!!!! You will get what you deserve!! If you are LUCKY enough to not be pregnant THEN I HOPE YOU LEARN SOMETHING!!! You aren't even crying about STD's yet, ever think you may have one!!!??? DO YOU THINK AT ALL???